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Most people say that to be goth you need a gothic mindset, but what does this mean? what is it about?

He has only known me For few weeks and he already calls me His soulmate and says similar crap on His online notes, Like i have found My other half . I Know he Said it on purpose because he didn t hide what he wrote (he could do that). He says he had a hard past and Always talks about sadness (he seems to act Like a sad emo). His flatteries are exagerated and sickeningly sweet, they sound totally fake. He seems to be faking everything. Should I stop seeing him?

I found this guy when I subscribed in a facebook group for girls looking for a japanese boyfriend. I posted a post about me, saying that I was a teenage girl from Italy; he started commenting it and then we started chatting; he talked all the time about Italian things, italian restaurants in Japan, the places he visited, italian artists etc.; I commented about the places he visited. He made most of the talking and I just had little "room" to speak, which made me feel a little overwhelmed. After just a few days we started talking less. I sent him some messages but he didn't answer even if he already was online: he usually answered a day later; when I asked him questions to keep the conversation going he would just answer briefly, showing little interest in what I said. I sent him few messages because I wanted to avoid being annoying. He didn't answer to my last message which I sent yesterday. Today he was online, posting things in the group and ignoring me :(

I wasn't particularly sad because he wasn't my type, he was much older than me and he was a bit ugly but I really disliked the way he treated me: he could had kept me as a friend!

Another problem is that he is one of the admins of the group and I fear he might talk behind my back with other users, ruining my possibilities of getting a boyfriend. What should I do? And how can I find japanese guys in Italy? Should I unfriend him (he is my friend on Facebook)?

Hi I am 16 and I think I blasphemed the holy spirit. It happened some days ago: I was in a fit of rage (which is the sign that I'm in the flesh) and I probably was tempted by a demon or more. The fact is that I poured most of my anger on god and I wanted to hurt him despite my mind warning me. So I said that mary was no different than satan (Included their souls). I knew I lied and that the holy spirit did work on mary. I regretted it a lot, I didn't want to go to hell, I wanted god to love me and I wanted to love him back. Now I don't think I meant it fully because of what I did, but I'm still terrified of hell. I realized what I did when it was too later and I didn't even realize it fully. Will I go to hell?

My ex girlfriend doesn't accept the fact that our relationship is over. I left our relationship because she said she loved me one day and she said she hated me the next! I tried EVERYTHING to understand why she behaves this way: I tried giving her some advice, I tried to notice if she was talking about another person, I tried not to listen to her insults, I even tried to text her but she didn't answer! nothing worked. She thinks she is hopeless with love and relationships so she is quite depressed. I know that what she thinks is quite true, but her behaviour just doesn't make sense! I described the situation to my parents and they said she's an idiot and I should stop caring about her because she's only playing me. The worse thing is that she thinks I am the one who is playing her! I don't know what to do, she argues about everything I say, she doesn't listen to me, she tortures me first and then she wants me back! I'M NOT HER TOY TO PLAY WITH! Now she keeps harassing me and she even made friends with my classmates...T.T I think she's quite psycho. What should I do???

I am a shy girl and I like another girl for the first time. We have talked on line, she goes to my same school and she's a year older than me; we know each other but we never talked in realty. There are 2 problems: the first is that she wants to talk to me (in reality) but I am really shy, I've never talked with anyone I liked before and every time I see her, I feel so embarassed that it's almost impossible for me to start a conversation; I guess that I will have to do the first move anyway.

The second problem is that I wanted to tell my parents that I like a girl but it's quite difficult because they don't know it yet. The biggest part of the problem is that my father hates gays, lesbians and bisexuals; my mother is a bit more open-minded than him, but she wouldn't react well about this.

What should I do? I feel a bit desperate!

I've just broke up with a person which I really liked because I was angry;; this person got sad every time I tried to talk with her because she thinks that I was just playing her... I know it looked like I was playing her but she wasn't any further from the truth. I tried to make her understand what I felt trough facebook ( I was too shy and insecure because in the past I got insulted every time I tried to talk to people; it happened also because it was the first time I liked a girl and I was very secretive about this). In the end she said that if I cared about her I would had just loved her silently... But how could she know what I felt if I didn't talk? I thought that communicating what I felt in a relationship was important, so Itried to let her know what I felt, I wanted to commit in this relationship so much and now I end up alone like a stray dog with no owner; I still love her even now but she wouldn't believe my words even if she read my question here. everything I said was completely useless. I don't know what could I do if I wanted to get her back; I couldn't even let her go because I still love her... It's just like Snape and Lily. she also said that if I loved her i wouldn't letted her go but I stayed with her so much time... I only letted her go because she says she feels sad when she knows I'm still trying to make it work. A wise man told me she doesn't need my help to grow up mentally and that she can make it on her own. Any idea?

I decided to try a website which is said to make wishes come true. i made my wish and i had to keep it secret but one day my dad found what i wished for and so he risked to break the spell that could have made my wish come true; doing so made my wish lose enegy and if a wish has no energy it can't come true. so , please, could you visit this website? http://www.real-wishes.com/ it will bring energy to my wish.

P.s. please help me. it's one of my most impotant wishes ever and i really need your help. if you don't believe in this things don't answer and don't comment. Thanks

I wanted to use the law of attraction for changing school and attending a new one but my parents don't believe that I will ever get in the school that I want to attend, plus they don't even believe in the law of attraction. I've tried to tell them how the law of attraction works but they think it's just a hoax and this complicates things even more beacause i need their help for achieving what I want...I know that people can do anything with the law of attraction but I can't do what i want on my own. I can't even count on the help of my friends because they don't believe in the law of attraction, they will think that I am crazy and I prefer not to trust them. I can't count on anyone but my parents. Has anyone got a solution for my problem?

p.s. no rude answers

I have made a really silly mistake: a guy that I really like (and probably liked me back) made a joke that I didn't understand and I thought that he was teasing me. I was really angry and I thought that he stayed silent because he was angry too. so I tried to apologize but he didn't listen to me. in the end he sayed that it was my problem not his so I realized that I had misunderstood him. he stayed silent because he didn't know why I was apologizing. now the problem is that he is angry because I made him feel guilty without reason and I don't even know if he is going to forgive me. I know it may sound like a comedy but that's true! why do this absurd situations Always happen to me? help!

p.s. I am not going to apologize anymore because it could make him even more angry.

I have fallen in love with a guy in my class. I really like him and he likes me back because I have heard that his friend asked him if he liked me and he said yes. The problem is that he is afraid of talking to me. He usually stays near me and when my classmates tease me he tries to stand up for me. Anyway I don't know why he never talks to me in public and when we are alone he is shy and quiet... This preoccupies me because he is usually outgoing and cheerful with other people while with me he seems cold. I think he doesn't talk to me in public because I am the fool of the class and I could worsen his reputation if he is seen with me. Maybe he doesn't like me that much? How can I stop being fooled by others and gain his attention?

I have a big problem: my classmates hate me and they think that i am retarded because I am really clumsy. I know I am not so smart but I am not as clumsy as they think I am too. I am clumsy because I am constantly worried about what they could think of me due to the fact that they judge me for everything . I am always embarrassed, sad and alone. I can't be myself when I am with them and I feel like if my real self is locked inside me and no one seems notice who I am really. I try to be myself with all my inner strenght but I can't because my personality seems trappled inside me and it can't escape... this is damaging me in the inside. I don't know what to do. I would like to use my full potential in school and in relationships but I can't. I want to set my personality free but I can't. I don't know what is stopping me! Maybe it's an irrational phobia or something of that sort caused by their harassment... anyway when I seem to be good at something they try to get me down with their insults and they undervaluate my skills. Why do they do that? are they envious? Or am i really retarded as they say? I don't know what to think! HELP!

P.S. sorry if i had misspelled some words but i don't speak english

Nel 350° episodio cos'é che chiede Franky a Brook? P.s. Ho guardato la puntata oggi ma sfortunatamente non ho capito cosa gli chiedeva...

e' una storia molto lunga ma la esporro' in breve: ho sempre avuto una vita del cavolo, sono stata danneggiata dai molti insulti che ho preso e come se non bastasse ogni volta che m'innamoravo o non ero ricambiata o mi volevano usare come uno straccio perche' sono bella ma ingenua. adesso son tornata me stessa, e mi sento piu' sicura... cosi ho commesso il grande errore di aprirmi all'amore. mi ero appena innamorata seriamente di un ragazzo e poi scopro che lui come tanti altri mi stava prendendo in giro! in classe mi faceva il filo, mi guardava tutto il tempo e mi seguiva dappertutto... ma poi scopro che e' fidanzato con una sua amica della sua stessa citta'.... quando l'ho saputo sono stata malissimo, anche perche' era un bravo ragazzo e non mi aspettavo una cosa simile da lui e per giunta mi piaceva sul serio! non me l'ha neanche detto in faccia... e sapeva che io provavo interesse nei suoi confronti. lo ha sempre saputo. l'unica che ci e' cascata come una babbea sono io! perche' tutti i ragazzi mi vogliono usare come uno straccio? cos' e' che ho che non va'? perche non trovo un ragazzo che ha buoni valori morali? solo perche' una persona e' un po' ingenua non significa che non abbia sentimenti! sono molto piu' seria di cio' che gli altri pensano... una ragazza ingenua non e' sempre stupida! io ci tenevo molto a questa persona anche se la conoscevo da poco.... perche' soffro sempre come un cane? io voglio qualcuno che mi capisca e che abbia il coraggio di trattarmi come merita una persona normale. saro' per sempre sola come un calzino spaiato? mi basta solo qualcuno che abbia la pazienza di capirmi

come si traduce la seguente frase? so bene matematica, ma mi bocciano sempre, i voti che prendo son peggiori. io l'avevo tradotta cosi': se' bien matematicas, pero me desaprueban siempre, las notas que saco son peores. il problema e' che il prof mi dice che l'ho tradotta sbagliata! cosa ho sbagliato?

mi sento come se non appartenessi piu' a me stessa. tutto e' iniziato alle medie... ero in seconda media e conobbi un ragazzo. Questo ragazzo non mi fece una buona impressione sin da subito... ma la prof insistette a mettermelo vicino. all' inizio riuscivo a tenerlo a bada... ma poi...scoprii di piacergli, eppure, conoscendoci, sapevamo che eravamo l'uno l'opposto dell' altro. lui non mi piaceva e quando questo ragazzo lo capi', tento' di farmi prendere una brutta strada come aveva fatto lui (fumava,beveva, andava in discoteca e quant'altro) pensando che cosi' sarei cambiata e saremmo diventati simili. ma quando capi' che io non ero disposta a cambiare, mi maltratto' talmente tanto che penso che l'inferno in confronto sarebbe stato una passeggiata... me ne diceva e faceva di ogni e poco a poco distrusse in pochi mesi cio' che io avevo costruito in una vita: ME. ora non so' piu' che fare, mi sento un' idiota, un guscio vuoto. e cosi', sentendomi un idiota, le altre persone pensano che io lo sia veramente. ma cio' non mi appartiene... se solo avessero conosciuto il mio vero io, adesso piangerebbero perche' si sentirebbero in colpa... forse, chi lo sa' il mio io esiste davvero, ma non tornera' mai piu' come prima. la mia anima porta cicatrici di una dura lotta. certo superando quest' inferno so' di essere stata forte e questo e' positivo... ma non sono mai guarita del tutto. ogni volta che sento qualcuno chiamarmi idiota penso a quanto mi ha fatto star male questo ragazzo e a stento non piango. in piu' non parlo piu' con nessuno, perche' temo di annoiarli con le mie paranoie, penso che loro in piu', avendo mentalita' diverse dalla mia, non mi possano capire e che le mie opinioni li annoino e basta. se solo avessero il coraggio di andare oltre le apparenze, saprebbero che ora il mio io sta ricrescendo silenziosamente dentro di me.... eppure ho bisogno di sanare questa ferita, che sanguina ancora dopo due anni, per ricostruire il mio io del tutto . credetemi, avere un' intera classe contro alle medie non e' un bell' affare, percio' se conoscete qualcuno che prende in giro le altre persone, fate tesoro di cio' che avete letto e tentate di portarli via da questa strada. non auguro a nessuno la mia esperienza... scusatemi se ho scritto troppo ma questo e' cio' che mi tengo dentro da due anni, e avevo bisogno di sfogarmi

Io credo seriamente che le scuole di magia esistono... Qua in italia ce ne sono? Cosa bisogna fare per iscriversi e raggiungerle?

allora, ecco in breve la situazione: a me piace un tipo e a quanto pare sono ricambiata, il problema e' che la mia amica non appena e' venuto a saperlo ha iniziato a trovare difetti su difetti a quello che mi piace, aggiungendo che secondo lei io con uno cosi' non ci vado d'accordo e come se non bastasse ha aggiunto che e' nella stessa squadra di nuoto con la sua amica ,il tipo che mi piace e la sua amica sono amici, in piu' ha detto che questa ragazza si e' appena mollata con un altro ragazzo. Dato che la mia amica sa' che sono timida fa leva su questo difetto per far si' che io non mi fidanzi! (almeno a me a dato quest' impressione) ho forse il sospetto che lei non voglia che io mi fidanzi perche' se no la pianterei da sola... in piu' lei e' in una situazione del cavolo con il tipo che le piace, e nonostante averle suggerito qual'era la via d'uscita da quella situazione lei c'e' voluta rimanere lo stesso perche' gli piaceva ancora quel ragazzo nonostante la stesse trattando come un fazzoletto usa e getta...ho anche l'impressione che sia molto invidiosa di me, vuole sempre dimostrare che io sono una calza bucata rispetto a lei, lei deve sempre primeggiare, comandare su tutti e manipolarli a suo piacere. infine non posso agire subito perche' sono in condizioni di salute traballante. che posso fare?