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can someone patient help me solve my silly problem?

I have made a really silly mistake: a guy that I really like (and probably liked me back) made a joke that I didn't understand and I thought that he was teasing me. I was really angry and I thought that he stayed silent because he was angry too. so I tried to apologize but he didn't listen to me. in the end he sayed that it was my problem not his so I realized that I had misunderstood him. he stayed silent because he didn't know why I was apologizing. now the problem is that he is angry because I made him feel guilty without reason and I don't even know if he is going to forgive me. I know it may sound like a comedy but that's true! why do this absurd situations Always happen to me? help!

p.s. I am not going to apologize anymore because it could make him even more angry.

Update:

He has chosen the silent treatment. I suppose he isn't going to forgive me. The bad thing is that I will have to learn to stay alone... and it's really hard because his love was the only good thing in my life... he was my everything. Now that I am without him, my life seems to have no purpose. His love was the only thing that made me strong enough to face my pain. Without him, I am nothing , I am too weak to go on. I suffered a lot in my past, but his love made me forget it...sadly, now he is gone and my pain has become overwhelming. He left me alone. I would have died for him but sadly he is also the one that killed me in the inside. It's terrible. I have cried a Whole day and now I am still crying. Maybe he didn't realize that he was the only one who kept me away from my past. Can someone help me?

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    Lv 5
    7 years ago
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    Trust me those kind of situations happen to plenty of other people too :-) You arent the only one.

    OK, so, why you just say to him, " look, I misunderstood what you said, thats why I got angry, then when I realised I misunderstood you I apologised to you, you are right, it was my problem, now can we please forget it and move on?"

    Try it and see if it works, if not then he is too immature to appreciate you.

    good luck.

  • 7 years ago

    You like him alot so your over analysing everything you do around him vice versa, chill! Stop over thinking it, people make mistakes and if he really likes you then this shouldn't be enough to ruin your relationship. If he still doesn't want to talk to you then he cant be that into you. Maybe give it some time for any irritated feelings you may harm caused to subside, let him miss you a bit, then when you do see him just act as if nothing happened and be happy and most of all relax and be your self!

    Source(s): Life
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