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My boyfriend hid other women's phone numbers under names of his family on his cell phone. If they are just friends, why did he hide it, and lie about it? Trying to hide them or lying about it makes it suspicious, and causes problems. If he had just told me they were friends to start out with, it wouldn't have bothered me, well, except the fact that some of them text him at 2 am, but come on, I've been honest about my friends, have even told some that I'm in a relationship and don't call any more, and he even admitted if it were the other way around, he'd be upset. I just don't get it.

This is probably so stupid, but I want to know if others feel this way. I have made an (email) friend, actually through this site. He answered one of my questions and I picked his as the best answer and he emailed me. We started emailing back and forth and I thought were becoming real friends. I flirt with him some, but I know that's all it will ever be since we live in different countries. Well, recently he hasn't been emailing me, and when i asked about it, he said he was working 2 full time jobs now and just doesn't have time to do much of anything. We happened to catch each other on instant messaging one day and he was sick that day. I sent him an ecard wishing him well. That's been over a week, maybe 2, and I haven't heard from him at all since then. He didn't acknowledge my card, and he hasn't sent any off line messages or anything. Nothing.........BUT.. he's been on this site within the last couple of days, so I know he's had a little time to at least check emails and get on line..

I feel so hurt. I feel like he has "cyber dumped" me. I know it's stupid to feel so hurt by someone I don't even know, but I do. Has this happened to any of you? And why do you think this has hurt me?

I have a friend who says she has bred cats before, and she has a siamese and one of her offspring looks just like her, and now he's old enough to breed. Is this unusual? Or is it ok with cats? I have cats, but have never bred them. I know nothing about it. I just think it's weird.

I've been reading a lot of questions and answers in this section, (divorce or separation) and so many of us have similar answers, and we know what others should do, usually looking out for themselves and leave the cheater or whatever, but when it comes to us being in a similar situation, it's so hard to do what everyone suggests, and usually what we've advised, and what we know is the best thing for us.

example, my husband left me in Nov. I know he's a scum sucking lizard, and I know when he calls, he wants something, (sex) and I know I shouldn't, but I do it anyway, and i know he wants his cake and eat it too, and I'm stooping because I still love him and don't want the divorce, that I'm willing to do just about anything, But if I were answering someone else's question of what to do, i'd tell them to run as fast as they can in the opposite direction...

Is it a case of "do as I say, not as I do"?

anyway...... this is mostly a thought at 2am while I can't sleep...

My lab mix has the strangest habit. We have hardwood floors, and she constantly licks the floor. It's the most bizzaar behavior I have ever seen in any of my pets. She'll lick all around where she is laying, then she'll get up and go to another spot. We all joke about her being obsessive compulsive, but it really has us stumped. Even my vet isn't sure why she does it.

My husband and i separated in Nov, which was bad enough on me, then my father died 12/16/07. I'm on antidepressants, seeing a councelor, have support from my family and friends, but I still can't face the world. I try to do all the things that are reccomended, do things outside of the house, exersice, visit friends, am applying for jobs and have had a few interviews, but I'm misserable, and all i want to do is come back home and get in bed. I cry all the time. My husband tries to be friends, and "was there" for me right after my dad died, plus, calls occasionally to see how I am. This confuses me. I don't know if talking to him some times helps or not. But I really think my biggest pain now, is loosing my dad. Any advise, comments, etc... is appreciated