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How do I make my friend question, or reverse his heterosexuality?

No, it's not for my benefit, I am not gay, not like there's a problem with being gay but whatever. This dude has a witch of a girlfriend who he decided to move in with after four months of knowing each other. He's being mentally abused and is beginning to take it on himself, freakin dude cut himself a lot the other day. He believes that he will only find happiness through this one chick because apparently he loves her, even though he constantly complains about her dumb antics, like going to a money mart so she could buy smokes with his money, yelling at him for not cleaning the dishes she used, and all this other bull. Anyways this is like his fifth relationship that has been this messed up. I think the only way for him to find a true cool gf would be if he batted for the opposite team for a while. How would one go about turning him gay? Hypnosis? Room 101 esque brain washing? In all sincerity this a completely serious question. Bro may hit rock bottom if he continues with this chick.

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  • 8 years ago
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    Taking your question in a doubtful nature, but here we go. You are not going to turn him gay. Simply will not work. Sounds like he likes the dominating type, not in one, but multiple partners. I would almost assume he had an abusive childhood, most likely by his mother. For this he needs this type of behavior in a partner. If you were successful in managing to turn him gay, he would look for the same qualities in a man. So, as a friend, you need to find a way to let him know, he should talk to a psycho therapist, dig deep into his "real" issue, and find a resolution to it. Then he will find happiness in a relationship.

  • 8 years ago

    Sorry but this plan is stupid! What your friend needs is psychotherapy or any other sort of professional help. You can't just turn a straight guy gay! and even if you do, since it is his way of thinking that's wrong, then even in a gay relationship he will still choose someone who abuses and uses him. It's not about being with women not men. He's the one who keeps being attracted to the wrong type of women who abuse him because he has been abused as a child and he subconsciously thinks that this is what he deserves- to be abused all his life..

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