How to make a guy want you?

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So it's complicated. A friend of mine and I are hooking up (I'm moving away in a few months, so no worries if this is a rash decision, soon it won't matter). It's great, but there's a major problem.

I'm going to go to is house soon to mess around, but I want to make out a bit more at first, since I don't want it to be a sudden encounter, because I think that would hurt the friendship. The problem is  is that we are such good friends that we prefer to spend our time talking about science or politics or cars or whatever. 

Obviously, I love and appreciate our friendship. It's great. Obviously he's a bit attracted to me, since we're hoking up. but I want him to be able to initiate the makeouts, because, say, I look hot enough that talking about politics is less interesting that making out with me. Right now, as far as he's concerned, making out is a sorta fun thing, but not a priority over talking. I've already told him that, but he's sorta stubborn. I know that if I look physically hot then he'll get into it.

Note: to those people about to say flash him cleavage, I'm an A-B cup. My assets are my legs and my lean stomach.

So what should I wear/do to make him want me? We'll be in public - public transportation, the mall, thrift shopping (he's very fashionable, and love shopping. I know, weird) so I'm not going to go down on him there. But small things that will lead to more makeouts. Sorry its so long!

Kazia · Accepted Answer

Well find some nice jeans or leggings or maybe even a dress that makes your legs look spectacular and also a shirt that is slightly short on you that will go up when you stretch will help too. As for the smaller boob size, honey that's what push-ups are made for!! Also maybe have a good friend who is good with makeup do you up pretty for whenever you go out (:

? · Answer

I would choose a pair of jeans and a shirt that is tailored for you, like if it is your style to swoop between plain or you rather wear patterned most times. Get something that is a bit unusual without impacting too much on the previous notions he is used from you. While you go window-shopping get him to save and he will probably be happier at the end of the day. Because you are going to walk a lot choose shoes that will not make your feet tired and do not forget to carry a fashion bag with you that can match your outfit.

Mary · Answer

Well as you said your assetts are your legs and stomach so show them off a bit.
i think the main attraction for anyone is being confident and making a person feel
good and comfortable with you so that they feel ok making a move.

Pyewacket · Answer

I don't know how old you are but I really wouldn't go there if I were you. Just remain friends and keep your assets covered!

Me · Answer

I think just stay friends for now otherwise one of you might end up hurting and you could lose your friendship.

? · Answer

you sound like a right tart
not one mention of the word love or even like, have you no self worth, have you no self respect

Anonymous · Answer

Tape an 'I'm desperate' sign to your forehead

? · Answer

You do not need to make somebody to want you. You are who you are. Be yourself.

How to make a guy want you?

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