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I dont understand my sexualality gay or bi?
I grew up always thinking of women and wanting to have a girlfreind. I had a girl for five years but in the end screwd it up because I cheated on her with other women. The sex I've had with my girlfreind and some of the other women after her have been amazing I was definitely satisfied. During the time with my girl I noticed that gay porn really turned me on and I started to think I was gay but never had feelings for men and never wanted to be with one. Its been a few years after my girlfreind now and during this time I've found myself having sex with men and fooling around with them. I don't understand this though because I was able to mess around them but when they tried to kiss me I just didn't feel comfortable doing that. I'm also always wondering now if people think I'm gay all the time now and that I sound gay or have gay mannerisms or something and I get more turned on watching gay porn and its easier to get an erection with gay thoughts over straight thoughts and this makes me wonder if I am gay and I'm not being true to myself. but when It comes down to it I've never wanted to be with a guy I've never had those thoughts about men Its just always been a sexual thing i just know I want to be romantically involved with a women its what I've always wanted its just naturally what I want. I'm I overthinking that I might be gay? Can someone explain why I get more turned on with gay porn and thoughts over straight ones but when it comes to sex I'm turned on with both but only want to be romanticallt involved with women?
3 Answers
- myerscoughLv 44 years ago
it particularly is in many circumstances because of the fact of their faith, an previous bible that asserts homosexuality is faulty, and at the same time as I have no issue with faith, no longer lots homosexuality replaced into occurring in those days. human beings have been misled via non secular media. additionally, human beings have been raised via their families to have faith that that's faulty; they do no longer choose a reason. while your youthful, if mom and pa say so it commonly rings actual to you. human beings do no longer project this because of the fact maximum folk of human beings are ignorant and conformists. while you're bi, and open and proud approximately it, odds are you're much less of a conformist than distinctive others. And once you're confronted with somehting you're no longer, you commonly don't comprehend it. Your confusion is, in different words, nicely justified. besides; you're distinctive. human beings worry what's unknown. If somebody got here in a reported they cherished those with purple eyes a blue epidermis could you be somewhat puzzled? (undesirable relation, i understand besides the incontrovertible fact that it is not my reliable factor.) human beings merely are afraid which you're strange (which for my section is a sturdy factor) yet that their acquaintances will shun them in the event that they do no longer shun you. Being a social outcast is a terror for many, so going with the circulate is commonly what maximum hotel to. commonly this suggests hating gays and bis. i'm hoping this helped, i understand hoe loopy human beings get approximately this, residing the place I stay (cough, the south, cough).
