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I dont understand my sexualality gay or bi?
I grew up always thinking of women and wanting to have a girlfreind. I had a girl for five years but in the end screwd it up because I cheated on her with other women. The sex I've had with my girlfreind and some of the other women after her have been amazing I was definitely satisfied. During the time with my girl I noticed that gay porn really turned me on and I started to think I was gay but never had feelings for men and never wanted to be with one. Its been a few years after my girlfreind now and during this time I've found myself having sex with men and fooling around with them. I don't understand this though because I was able to mess around them but when they tried to kiss me I just didn't feel comfortable doing that. I'm also always wondering now if people think I'm gay all the time now and that I sound gay or have gay mannerisms or something and I get more turned on watching gay porn and its easier to get an erection with gay thoughts over straight thoughts and this makes me wonder if I am gay and I'm not being true to myself. but when It comes down to it I've never wanted to be with a guy I've never had those thoughts about men Its just always been a sexual thing i just know I want to be romantically involved with a women its what I've always wanted its just naturally what I want. I'm I overthinking that I might be gay? Can someone explain why I get more turned on with gay porn and thoughts over straight ones but when it comes to sex I'm turned on with both but only want to be romanticallt involved with women?
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- Anonymous10 years agoFavorite Answer
OMG IM THE SAME WAY im a girl and i would never wanna like date a girl, but like licking pussy and mmmmm touching boobs omg i love it. and i love lesbian porn too i always have. i call myself straight because i dont like dating girls, but i "admire" them lol i like checking girls out and ****. there may not be a label for this sexual life style me and you seem to have but i say just live and have fun :P
- Anonymous4 years ago
it particularly is often because of their faith, an old bible that announces homosexuality is faulty, and at the same time as I genuinely haven't got any concern with faith, no longer a lot homosexuality became happening in lately. human beings were misled by technique of religious media. also, human beings were raised by technique of their households to have self belief that it really is faulty; they don't go with a reason. at the same time as your youthful, if mom and pa say so it typically earrings genuine to you. human beings do not undertaking this because maximum human beings of human beings are ignorant and conformists. if you're bi, and open and proud about it, odds are you're a lot less of a conformist than a impressive type of others. And once you're confronted with somehting you're literally not, you typically do not comprehend it. Your confusion is, in different words, properly justified. as well; you're diverse. human beings concern what's unknown. If someone got here in a reported they beloved those with red eyes a blue epidermis ought to you be somewhat perplexed? (undesirable relation, i understand besides the indisputable fact that it is not my strong element.) human beings basically are afraid that you're strange (which in my opinion is a robust component) yet that their acquaintances will shun them in the journey that they don't shun you. Being a social outcast is an apprehension for most, so going with the bypass is often what maximum motel to. typically this suggests hating gays and bis. i wish this helped, i understand hoe loopy human beings get about this, residing the position I stay (cough, the south, cough).