help-my husband takes too long when we have sex?

Have you talked about this with your husband?

Maybe he read a survey saying that women prefer men who can last for over an hour.

Seriously though, there is no substitute for communication! People are not mind readers. He isn't going to know what you want unless you tell him. If it turns out that he genuinely likes long, drawn out lovemaking and you'd rather things finish a bit quicker, I'm sure you can reach some sort of compromise.

Wow Girl Stop Complaining! You Should Feel Lucky That He Cares So Much To Please You. If It Seems To Long, Sit Down And Talk To Him. Come Up With A Signal That You Can Give Him When You Are READY To Have Him C*m!

You Have Been Together A Long Time, He Most Likely Has Been Working On Holding Back For Years. But Hey If He Stimulates, And Pleases You Why Complain.

Don't just have sex, Foreplay first then have sex. It will probably take the same time with a lot more fun. You would probably want it to last longer.

It is very normal especially when a person is getting older. Just enjoy being together.

Just curious how old are you??

wow and I thought 30 seconds to 2 minutes was the average! Want to trade husbands for a while...I swear you will never complain again!

He has probably lost a lot of his penis sensitivity.. leading to an inability to climax. Get him to start using a penis health creme that contains acetyl L carnitine. This amino acid will restore lost feeling down there and lead to shorter and better sex sessions. Hope this helps and good luck.

So you would be happy with a wham bam thank you ma'am??

Seriously... I bet if he didn't last long enough you would be on here complaining about that!

You should be grateful that he not only wants to have sex with you after 20 years, but that he is also wanting to make sure you're good and satisfied... Have you tried to satisfy him?

LOL Show off! The longer the better in my book, unless your husband really sucks ( and not in a good way ) at sex, then I understand, but if it's good and you're enjoying it make the most of it.

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Does he have a single brother with the same "problem"?

Honestly, just enjoy it. After 20 years, be thankful he is still interested. Many women on her complain about their spouse losing interest after 2 years!

i use to have this same problem and its very annoying.. i have never been one to enjoy long love sessions... try to figure out what it is that he really likes and do it so you make him finish quicker! mine said that he was weird if it was good he would keep going if the sex was bad he wouldnt last too long.... that seemed odd?? anyhow.. after we were together for so long i figured out how to make him get there in a hurry.. some guys can just go FOREVER..... and some women dont really care for that!