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Ex ghosted me and might expose me on social media ?

I was friends with benefits with a woman for about a year. I have not been lucky financially and had to lean on her financially as a result. 

I told her up front that I was struggling financially and could not afford to take her on dates or buy her anything. I offered some company and intimacy which she seemed okay with as she was going through a hard time emotionally (she had just separated from her cheating husband). We saw each other once or twice a month and would have light conversation most days.

I admit that i asked her for support a few times and she did help with bills, car rides, groceries and day to day costs. She also got me a job and ran errands for me. She was helpful tbf. But after a few months she started to complain and would occasionally bring up things she had done for me. She even once sent me a text detailing how much she had spent versus how much I had. She said that I had spent £4 and she had spent £4000. Rude! Clearly she was keeping score. She also used to cyber stalk me, my friends and ex on Instagram. 

She eventually ghosted me after I asked her to help me to buy a new computer. No conversation, no argument, no nothing. She changed her number and came off social media. So I had no way to contact her. I stopped trying after a week. After a few months she's back on social media  and i have a feeling she would want embarrass me on there. I also think she is still looking at my profile. 

What should I do? 

No judgemental answers please!

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  • Anonymous
    2 weeks ago

    No matter how you try to spin us a tale, the facts are that you took advantage of this woman at what seems to be a vulnerable time of her life. She's moved on which is good on her. The best way to avoid being "exposed" on social media is to get your act together and stop using others for personal gain.

  • 2 weeks ago

    I'll paraprhase "How can I still mooch off women if this woman I mooched off outs me?" Why shopuld I help?

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