Have you ever noticed that women, when they are upset about something, expect men to be able to read their minds?  Why is that?

They just can't communicate directly and hate confrontation so they dress up everything in pretty little comfortable lies and attempt to manipulate you to their pov instead of asking 

It's a test.  If men need women to spell out why they are mad, then it means men aren't really paying attention to women and don't really care about them.

It stems from their unconscious desire to be penetrated. 

I don't think so but maybe just don't wish to complain about something