How do you decide where to intern a body, especially with family troubles?

It is worth noting that, despite how no one believes me, I got nothing from my father's estate. The lawyers demanded I have the cat removed (so I took her in) but the only things I was allowed to remove were photos, papers for administration and possessions that did not belong to him (I had stuff there, he rented things, etc.). So this cat, who the vet says is a terror because she was neglected, his ashes and some memories are all I have left of my Dad. Hell, I didn't even get condolence cards.

You make it sound so easy, but how do I know that's what he still wanted when six months before his death, he landed in the hospital and -despite my going against his wishes I contacted them - and no one came or even called. In fact, he is unaware that I brought up that I was overwhelmed with his care and they punished me for even saying it. He change his phone number and never gave them the new one. Does that sound like a man with the same relationship with his family?

Not to mention, my father also had a hard time defending himself against them but he never let anyone do anything to me. If he had heard his brother claim I shouldn't have any rights because I am not her ally his daughter, he would have put my uncle in the hospital for impuning the love of his life's fidelity and ever suggesting I was not his daughter, and slapped any family member who treated me horribly as a result. He wouldn't have let them do what they are doing now,

These are people who said I wasn't his daughter because they asked to bring a Priest and I replied that, while I certainly was seeing one, my father hated religion and I didn't think a prayer service over his body was what he would have wanted. They took over the funeral and held a prayer service over his body anyway.

I'm the only one who has had any consideration for what he wanted. If I didn't care, I wouldn't be stuck in this moral dilemma.