How to send Thank You cards with no addresses?

i wouldnt send them, if they wanted to receive them they wouldve written more legibly

You do not have to send any thank you cards at all, it is not necessary, the people you can get in touch with just ring or drop them a line to say thank you for coming, it was nice to see them etc, but those you cannot contact, you cannot send them a card can you? don't worry about it.

I actually did not know that one was supposed to send thank you cards to everyone who attended the funeral home. Are you sure about that?

In any event, there truly is nothing you can do to acknowledge and thank people for whom you do not know or have there address to send a card.

You can't. ask another attendee if they know who it might be.

If one expects to receive a thank you letter, then one must make have a care for the person whom one expects to write that letter. If one is giving a gift, one should enclose a card or note with ones name and mailing address printed or clearly written. If one attends an event and wishes to be thanked, then one must be sure to leave ones name and address in print format or legibly written.

I'd let this go. People who have given a wedding gift are rightly miffed if no thank you materializes, for they have every reason believe that the couple knows who gave a gift and also knows the mailing address of the giver -- after all, they sent the giver a wedding invitation. But in your case these people haven't given a gift and probably aren't expecting you to write thank you letters in your time of grief.

BTW, all those people asking if they can do something for you? It's OK if they write these letters on your behalf:

Dear Lydia Munoz,

Jill McCoy has asked me to thank you for the lovely funeral flowers and thoughtful message. Your remembrance and words brought her comfort. She sends her best wishes.

Yours truly, Muriel Bernstein

You can't. I know you should know this but if there is no address for them to go then logically you can't mail them.

You are thoughtful to want to do this but it may not be possible. When my father died in 2012 a lot of people who showed up were neighbors who I did not know. I took the guestbook to neighbors across the street from my parents and asked for help. The were able to tell me "oh that is Mary and Sam Smith from Jones Street so I was able to look up addresses for more people. Maybe you can do the same.

You don't need to, its a nice thought but its all about you and the family, not sending "guests" cards.

you don;t send thank you notes for that - you thank people for coming AT the funeral

I've never heard that you should send thank you cards to everyone who attended. It's a nice thought, but if you don't know them, I wouldn't worry about it.