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Sage
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Sage asked in Pregnancy & ParentingPregnancy · 7 years ago

what is the likelihood that my boyfriend is the father of my child?

My boyfriend and I began to try to get me pregnant in May, following all the guidelines. On August 8 he broke up with me. We both saw other people and I had unprotected sex around the 20th of August (but the guy did not ejaculate inside me). On August 24th my boyfriend and I got back together. He wanted to make sure I wasn't pregnant so I foolishly relied on tests which all read negative. (although I was most definitely pregnant by this time)

It wasn't till mid December that I found out I was pregnant (the doctor assumed I was 4.5 months!) Her first thought was that i conceived in early to mid July, but when I got my ultrasound I was two weeks further behind then what she had expected, making it likely to be late July/Early August.

On January 23rd I was said to be 26.5 weeks pregnant, and my due date was set for April 28th. Both my boyfriend and I am concerned about whether it could be possible for me to have conceived later than the ultrasound expected (with the other person), and he says if the DNA is not his, he will leave. How can I wait that long to know whether I should prepare to be a single Mother or not?!

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  • 7 years ago
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    Honey, you have to do a DNA, that is the only way to determine who the father of your child is, during this time, you must tell the other guy that he might be the father of your child, you must let everyone know, your child needs a father, and whoever the father is, they must step up to the plate, be a man, and take responsibility.

    Honey, he might leave, if your baby is the other guys, but he can't leave on his child, if it is his child, then he needs to pay child support, and he needs to pay for your doctor visits, honey, every child needs a father, so do a DNA, and tell both guys, and then go from there.

    They can run, but they can't hide......tell everyone involved, and then go from there, and when your baby is born, have a DNA test done and then go from there.

    G♥♥d luck :-)

    (((hugs))))♥♥♥

  • 7 years ago

    You made that choice, so now you will have to wait until delivery for a paternity test. You're boyfriend"probably" being the father isn't enough to go on. You have to wait.

  • 7 years ago

    Look you're pregnant and don't need to be stressing. Your boyfriend is probably the father based on what you said. Congrats and enjoy your new bundle of joy!

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