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Respect response to "I love you" when you don't?

We were watching a television show that dealt with yet another unsuccessful response to "I love you," and started our experiences with this in relationships. We all wish we had had good responses because (a) you care about the person, and (b) sometimes it's just a matter that you aren't there yet but may be soon.

Anyone had a good response? Or had someone have a good response for your confession? My best one that I've said was "thank you" but the opinion of the group is still that this response sucks.

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  • SGM
    Lv 7
    7 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    Say a warm "Thank you, <person's name>." If they ask "Do you love me?" then you smile and reply "I'm working on it."

    Another reply is "Of course you do. You have great taste."

    When you give a warm or playful reply, their reaction will let you know if they enjoy being with you, or if they are uptight and make things awkward.

  • 7 years ago

    When my ex told me that he loved me, I wasn't completely sure if my feelings were that strong. I just smiled, kissed him, and then left. It took me two weeks to say that I loved him back, but as I look back upon our relationship, I'm still not sure if I really loved him.

    "Thank you" is not what I think as a correct response. I think the most appropriate should be to just let it be how it is. If you don't love them back, don't force it out because you feel pressured. I think that is something I regret.

    I also recently had a guy that I was seeing for only a couple of months and he mentioned 'girlfriend', 'relationship', 'love' and 'girlfriend' about the third time I had seen him and in the space of five minutes. I was completely freaked out. Then he said that he loved me on the way out, and I couldn't help but just run.

    I think this is just one of life's awkward scenarios. Maybe a word should be invented when you are in this situation as a response to 'I love you', when you just really like them instead.

    Source(s): Personal opinion and experience.
  • ?
    Lv 7
    7 years ago

    thank you is the best response ----- i think you probably need to consider your feelings as well ---- if the spark is not there it never will be and love is never slow

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    I put aww that's nice but I couldn't think of anything else to say.

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