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? asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 8 years ago

Me and My Boyfriend areDrifting Apart?

hi, im 14. 9th grade.

we've been together for a week now. But sometimes i feel he just wants to make out with me. -.-

he always wants to spend time with his friends. i know i know. i get that guys like to talk and be ''cool'' like that. but what about me. we never talk. (only small talk) and im running out of things to say. idk if im being emotional because im on my week right now, or this is serious fudge.

its getting really awkward, and he's now avoiding my texts and messages .. (or maybe he seriously doesn't notice, or has something better to do. :P)

oh, he also dint get me something for valentines day because he ''had no time'' but ate candy with his friends behind my back// from a seeing distance..

idk what to do. anyone out there that can help? any tips?

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  • ?
    8 years ago
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    He's just using you to make out. Break up with him and find someone who will treat you better. But no rush, you're only 14.. You have years and years to find mr. right!

  • Umayr
    8 years ago

    Even if u don't want to I think u guys shld call it quits. I'm 13 and in eighth grade and same prob with me and my ex gf. She never really had time for me and we were drifting apart and she was avoiding my texts do. So we both called it quits and we r both much happier now. Ur young only 14 guys will come and go. Sounds to me like he's just being a jerk. Go and enjoy life!

  • Emma
    8 years ago

    Chill the **** out. You're only 14 and have only been together for a week. Just accept he's not the one and move on with your life. I would break up with him if I was in your shoes.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Hun break up not to be too straight forward or mean but hes just with u to be in a relationship :/ right now your just his side girl

  • ?
    8 years ago

    Sounds like he's just using you, my advice.......... dump him before its too late and you commit to a one sided relationship. Good luck.

  • Raven
    8 years ago

    Leave him, move on he's being immature and you guys are still young

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