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Do I ask him or not, help..?

So my partner has recently been doing extra shifts at his old job. Yesterday night I went to check the time on his phone and seen a girl had messaged him saying "It was nice to see you again x" This girl works there i think. I didnt want to start going through his phone so I just left it. It was playing on my mind so I looked on his phone and all the messages were gone so im taking it he had deleted them. So my question is do i ask him or not? Its just playing on my mind.

Bit of background, the other day i grabbed his phone to play on a new game he downloaded and he was so paranoid and wanted his phone back! Also i have seen another girl flirting with him on facebook.

Please help do i ask him or not? And what should i say? Thank you.

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  • 8 years ago
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    I would ask, and I have asked such questions many times before, sadly. Just ask him straight up, what's going on. Just try not to do in it in a way he feels attacked, do it calmly and nicely, that way you are more likely to get the truth. Just prepare for what might be the truth. If he get's defensive, he is probably guilty. Gut feelings are usually right.

    Source(s): My life.
  • 8 years ago

    yes do ask hem

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