It Happens!

I have had my implannon since June 2010, and since then I have had regular periods (moderate to very light bleeding), but this morning I woke up and was bleeding ALOT. It was almost as if I had peed on myself. Throughout the day, I have bleed just as much as I did this morning. It won't take thirty minutes (after I put a tampon in), and I will bleed all over myself!?!?! Is it possible that I have miscarriaged on the implannon?

I have a three year old daughter, and she has been wonderful since she was born, besides having the colic. She slept in her own bed or with me, loved me, and was a normal child. Her father and I split two years ago (he didn't help with her & hit me), and he did not gain any sort of visitation with her until last year. I have sole custody and he has standard visitation. I have always been the primary caregiver for her. Anyways, it seems as if since she has been going to her fathers house she has been acting out towards me. We live with my parents, and as I said before she always has slept in her own bed or with me, but now she wants to sleep with my dad. She also is constantly crying over him, and says I "vomit" on her & she also says my mother does this, we have neither ever vomited on her! There have been multiple times that she has bitten and scratched me for no reason (she does not get whipped, ever). She also says that I am mean, nasty, and that I have germs (I am certainly none of the three). Oh & before she went up there I could wash her hair no problem, and now it's more like a war, although she has gotten a bit better at that... I have never been the type of mother who would throw their child off on their parents all of the times, so this makes no sense to me. It is getting to the point to where it is hard to take her in public because she always screams about me vomiting on her! Does anyone know why she is doing this?

My fiance and I have been fighting daily lately, we have been together for two years.. He cheated on me in the past, but after swearing up and down that he'd do better, I took him back. Well he recently lost his job a few months ago, and since then he has been acting so weird. He isn't as caring, doesn't care about my feelings like he did before, and he is hateful, and rude to me sometimes; he feels really distant. When I ask him what's wrong he insists there is NOTHING wrong with him, and says that I need to stop fight with him. I just want to know what's wrong with him. I have had alot of drama with my child's father and his sister said something to me that I didn't like. I still love her to death but I figured I would talk to him about it, so I did, I was nice and didn't say anything, and he acted completely mean to me! He said "Well, you don't have to come up here anymore, I guess we will see each other on the road or something." (He lives at home.) I just wanted to talk to him and he acted to rude to me, WHY? I didn't say anything bad, just that it hurt my feelings! Not to mention all the other things he has said to me. I am just lost for words and I am not sure what to do, he acts like he doesn't care, but still insists that he wants to marry me. What would you do?

Firstly, I will tell you all a little bit of what's behind my situation. I have a two almost three year old, and her father has put us through heck! He has lied on me and my family, while all he done when my child was little, was sit on his butt and play runescape! He had no job, didn't do to school or nothing, but did not help me (I was and am in school full time), not to mention the fact that he hit me. We went to court and I have soul custody of my child, but he still gets standard visitation. He is crazy and so is his mother who he leaves my child with all the time (I have no control over this!). He has lied on my family, and I , and makes my child go with him, when she does not want to go! He also tries to brainwash my child and has her believing that me and my mother are nasty, mean, and we have germs! She tells us she hates us all the time-she never done this before. Anyways, I refuse to have any contact with him or anyone who is friends with him, because he is seriously warped and I don't like drama. If any one says anything about my child, I will trip out, but I guess that is just the way mommies are. I just don't see her father as her actual dad because he never done anything for her, and only wanted to take me to court, after he figured out I wouldn't have him back.

I got out of that relationship with him, obviously, and started dating someone else (is good to me and my child). Even though my current boyfriend and I have broke up multiple times because of different things. He begged me back, and everything was fine and dandy (he was good to me and my kid, and supported me), but here lately him and his sister act like it is awful when someone says bad things about my baby's daddy. She really hit me the wrong way with some of the things she said, and then he takes up for her, knowing it is BS, and so does she. What makes this so bad is that both of them saw how he done my daughter and I. It may be childish but the amount of drama we have been through, I can not handle anyone's bull. I tried to just ignore that, which it still gets under my skin... Then today my boyfriend and I were talking, (we are supposed to be getting married), and he said "If you aren't gonna marry me, tell me so I can find someone else, I am not going to be alone my whole life!" So of coarse I cried. I feel as if he is hitting me in all the wrong places with the baby daddy and this stuff. I have been nice to him and his family and I just don't understand what's up with all of this. Should I let it all go and continue with the relationship? And should I even be hurt over all of this?