am i allowed to tell him to eff off?

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so there's this guy that i know, who's the son of my dad's friend and he also goes to my school. at first i thought that he was nice but awkward. then he kept stopping by my locker ALL THE TIME and it became annoying and i he became really creepy too. even so, i haven't been a complete bch and i still tried to have some conversations with him once in a while. sometimes though i keep my answers short to try to hint to him to leave me alone. however recently i went to a fam jam and he was there too. he swore all the time, even when i told him not too (we were at the park with little kids right in front of us) and he called my brother a dipsht because my brother beat him in some wii game. when i told him that was very rude he just said "i don't like being provoked". now i think he's just a major ahole and a complete dck. can i just tell him to eff off now?

BADNESS · Accepted Answer

Does he have to come over or can you tell y9our dad why and what he does? I mean atleast fill your dad in so if his father says something or over hears you your dad knows why!! But if he has to come and cant stay home. Or if he can not go in your room then yes!!

♥Sweet Heart♥ · Answer

Just tell him how you feel. But, in a respectful way. You can tell him in details the things that he does that bothers you so that he can know. Maybe he's just being himself---an ahole. But, he also probably doesn't want to annoy you the way that you are being annoyed. Just tell him in detail what is ticking you off. Just do it with class. You never know, maybe he cares about you and will control his ahole behavior. 

If things don't change, then get your dad involved.

Anonymous · Answer

Sure you can. Maybe just start totally ignoring him, and he'll get the hint. If he asks why you're ignoring him or not talking to him anymore just be like "Look, you were rude the other day and completely inappropriate. I tried to be nice about telling you the other day, but I guess nice just won't cut it anymore." And walk away.

Anonymous · Answer

I would try and keep some dignity,just be polite and make small talk but if he keeps being rude let him know that his behavior is unacceptable.

Anonymous · Answer

tell this kid to mature of screw off. or the nice way tell him we can hang out together because your to volgar and annoying. if you changed i would not mind hanging out if you were to stop being a little brat.

Anonymous · Answer

yes-

am i allowed to tell him to eff off?

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