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is this normal when your in love?
i feel im bipolar or something like when everythings good its perfect like its 100% but when things go bad its like 0% and like itll b over nothing but it feels like the worst thing in the world and idk why i feel like this
like why can something thats so perfect most of the time b so scary and make u feel sick the other times?
its honestly like being on drugs like all the time like up and down its unlike any other feeling like soooo extreme one way or the other
how do u deal with the hard times?
the thing is its myself beating myself up over making a mistake. 97% of the time is perfect but as soon as something goes wrong i get scared
and yes i am diagnosed with minor depression but still like its just different
3 Answers
- Anonymous9 years ago
what you described to me could be various amount of things from yes bipolar or even depression. It is normal usually to have ups and downs,I mean we all have our days like that don't we?
When it starts becoming a concern is when they become more episodic and more frequent. Do you feel like your moods are affecting your job and school performance, or even feel like they could damage your relationships? Bipolar disorder is when you are as you described usually feeling unusually “high” and optimistic OR extremely irritable at the same times.
It also could mean sleeping very little, but feeling extremely energetic, or even talking so rapidly that others can't keep up? Other symptoms can include inability to concentrate, but remember these are also signs of just your common case of depression. If it becomes something that you see occur more and more it's okay to go to the doctors if it becomes a worry. Sometimes seeing a professional with your questions might make you feel more at ease. However try to not worry so much because then you give your self anxiety and that can become even more of an issue. I also know that love can make you feel crazy at times, this feeling can actually be quite normal. Relationships are serious and when we get attached we get nervous, and sometimes we feel happy, and other times not as much. Now's the time to separate the two, are your feelings from the relationship in itself or just in your own life daily experience
Hope I helped, and good luck!
- 9 years ago
because you don't have a life and have low confidence and are hooked on 1 guy so you're reality hinges on your relationship. I've been there many times. The thing is to stop reading your relationship, just have confidence and assume things are ALWAYS good until otherwise. And STOP playing games and just have a normal relationship where you both always talk and try to make each other's lives good.
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- soloLv 49 years ago
is normal when you are in love with the wrong person, end it and move on. It will be painful, but for the best. You probably even know its the wrong person, but don't want to admit it to yourself
