Going to a new school ... so excited, so nervous, but I need help!?

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I just need some tips ... (btw, i'm not gonna tell you my age, but i'm in the 13 - 15 area, so nothing like sex or kissing or dating or anything inappropriate, please.)
I'll be visiting my old friends, like maybe once every other week or so, but I know my friends think i'm annoying (i don't exactly know why) and I'm just worried that when I come back they aren't gonna appreciate me. I wanna tell them about how i'm doing at my new school but I don't wanna sound like I'm bragging or i'm desperate.
Connecting to that, i'm not a girly girl. i'm an outgoing and optimistic person who's leaning towards the traits of a tomboy. and i'd rather hang out with boys (NOT dating, just as friends) and be athletic and act weird and stuff. but maybe some girl friends too. my best friend is able to do this and I don't know how! GUYS: if you're around the age of 13 - 15 and if a girl wanted to be your friend, how would you expect her to act so that she would be your friend? GIRLS: if you're friends with guys, how do you become friends with them? do you have to be confident?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

You usually become friends with a guy through a girl, and you don't have to be confident, but don't be too shy that you can't even look them in face. Guys appreciate funny things, so just joke around with them, and if you just wanna be friends with them, not BF/GF, just tell them smoothly. But I figure that you're leaning towards a tomboy that they won't be mistaken that you wanna hook up. I suggest that you join some kind of team, like football and stuff, but don't be girly with it. If you're all sqirmy and wimpy like a girl when your trying out, they won't wanna be friends with you. 

If you want girl friends, be funny, but don't dress like a total dude around them. I guess they won't mind if you don't paint your nails and toes and stuff like that, but wear little colorful bracelets, or the ones from Hot Topic, and make sure you take care of the hair, don't wear it in a pony tail all the time. You can wear sweatshirts, but ones that are too big for you and look cute then they're too big :)

Remember, be confident. And plus, are your friends actually your friends? Or are they just some girls you hang with? They sound like those girls off of Camp Rock :/

So, yeaahhhh. And one more tip:

NEVER SAY NEVER!!! (Yea I went there) Listen to Bieber. 

Seriosuly though, your friends sound like their gonna talk about you when your gone. Jk :)

natoli · Answer

What U have is rigidity I actually have the same ingredient and that i dealt with all of it for the time of school im getting remedy for it. Its a touch scary in the starting up yet once u make a buddy and understand u will be with them at certain situations like lunch or obtainable get fortunate and characteristic some instructions with them once you've that it will be plenty a lot less puzzling for u the first couple days is universal for all human beings to be anxious i became each 3 hundred and sixty 5 days i went to varsity that is going to pass same on your first day in middle college. i am hoping I helped u solid success

Anonymous · Answer

just talk to them alot,dont act like a girly girl,guys have their girlfriends for doing that. they like to just hang around girls without u saying "omg! that guy is totally hot!!" or "ewwww! thats diskusting" but dont act like a guy either,they have their guy friends to do that

good luck :)

(im a girl)

Going to a new school ... so excited, so nervous, but I need help!?

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