girlfriend is not supportive for military service?

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just wondering what advice I can get...she does not want to change her schedule around when I am deployed overseas.  Not that I expect her to change her work schedule or sleep schedule, but she claims that she WILL NOT answer phone calls from me if she is sleeping.  She is very head strong and "independent", is this something I should just accept?  Cheating is not a big fear of mine, but does she not feel the same way as I do about wanting to talk to each other?

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my fiancee is in the police force. at first it was really hard for me because i knew i would hardly see him! but we get around it :) he only goes away every 4 weeks for 1 weekend and works 1 night every week so it's not bad. it was hard because negative thoughts to over me about the dangers that could happen and all the nasty things :( . but it takes a few weeks to realize anything is possible its just the way it goes.

after a while if she really does love you then she won't care about sleeping. she will jump straight up to the phone to talk!. she will wait up for a text of you. trust me. she just don't want you to go because she is concerned for you.

tbh do what you want to do, and if she wants to stick by you then great! but she will soon realize that she misses you and will answers your calls. she's properly emotional and not wanting you to go.


good luck for military services!!!

all the best
x

~~DEVASIOUS~~Biotches&#39; get i · Answer

It will start to get to her when yu are not in the bed with her to snuggle up , understand about being independent , but she will start to miss you and will jump when the phone is ringing

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If you are not worried about cheating, than you can try to call her at other times when she is not sleeping, I think she would love you more for that.

girlfriend is not supportive for military service?

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