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Extremely sore stomach following sex?
Before I begin, sorry but this is going to be detailed and I'm a little embarassed but anyway... So lately, my partner and I have been having sex and often afterward I have terrible stomach cramps for about 10 minutes then it's fine again. I was wondering what could be the cause because to me there are several possibilities - firstly he is rather well endowed, but I never had problems before with that. Secondly, I've never had an orgasm before and it seems I get the pain often after I've ALMOST built up far enough. Could it be pressure from that? And finally, I started the pill a couple of months ago and used it to skip a period for a camping trip last month. Maybe I screwed up my innards? (Lol). Anyway, does anyone have any ideas or similar experience to help me?
6 Answers
- Lily LLv 61 decade agoFavorite Answer
He's hitting your cervix which is causing you pain. Still . . . this is not a normal thing. For most women it does not hurt that much. It could have something to do with skipping the period. That area can be much more sensitive right before your period.
I don't want to scare you, but you really do need to pay attention to this. I had the EXACT same thing. It was terrible for quite a few minutes after we finished. Turns out I had cervical cancer. Cervical cancer makes your cervix easily irritated. Now I think it is MUCH more likely this has to do with skipping a period and being sensitive from that, especially if you never had this pain before. (My pain developed grandually.) But if this keeps happening after you get your period, go to your gynecologist for a pap smear.
Also, bleeding after sex is a sign something is up with your cervix, so if that is happening, you should also see your gyno.
- 1 decade ago
Your probably getting bruised, and yes not finishing the deed on your end will cause some discomfort. You might want to be more vocal with him and what you like. Most girls aren't ready for the rough stuff until they have been worked up for it...and lastly your body releases a mild form of morphine during sex, one of the reasons it's good and you don't seem to get tired until immediately afterwards. This can prevent you from realizing you might be getting hurt. If he is too big try out different positions so he's not hurting you as much.
Source(s): Lot's of experience, taught sex ed for 2yrs - ?Lv 45 years ago
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- 1 decade ago
I think you probably guessed right with his being big and you almost having an orgasm the combination could cause that kind of pain. It's always safer to just go to the doctor to rule out disease but in the meantime, tell him to make you orgasm or masturbate when you guys finish to see if that helps. Good luck!
- 1 decade ago
the pill makes you swell down there, because the pill makes ur body think ur pregnant, and so since he is "endowed" that its hitting the swollen part so it hurts. it happens to me sometimes to its normal.