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I have no desire for sex and I don't miss it. Does anybody else feel the same way?
I am wondering if anybody else understands how I feel. I used to thoroughly enjoy sex and everything related to it in my twenties. After marriage, kids, ups and downs of life; I don't have the capacity to get excited about sex in any way. I can participate, achieve the big"O" and all that but I have no desire to ever initiate it and I feel like if somebody told me i would never have sex again i would not blink twice. I never heard of such a thing because most people in my situation feel some loss or frustration but...I feel not a thing almost literally. I'm happy in general with my life but I wonder should I be worried? Besides the possibility that my husband may not be able to handle this situation forever, I feel almost free or unburdened. I enjoy the focus it gives me to not have sex as a distraction. So, like I said, anybody else understand how I feel?
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