Do you think this was a rude thing to do?

Out of respect for your brother, doing nothing kept the service dignified and focused on him. That woman obviously made a BIG mistake, your bro's funeral was not the place to show support for the driver. If she supported the driver, she should have told him privately. She probably wanted some spotlight to show how forgiving she is but was stupid enough to pick the wrong place and time to do it. Forget her. She got the message from everyone staring at her. You need to just think good things about your brother, not let what this woman do mess up your life. She's a fool.

Rude maybe, more like ignorant. This woman clearly failed to understand the purpose of the reflections and that it was not the place to be playing public defender.

I am speechless. That is so rude, inappropriate, tactless, heartless, and insensitive! You could have asked her to leave, but that may have caused a scene. You could have confronted her afterward to let her know how rude she was, but she probably wouldn't care what you thought. Since she sat down quickly, it was probably best not to say or do anything. Hopefully you never have to see the witch again. I'm so sorry for your loss.

She might of meant that she didn't know the family but she wanted to support "T" in the time of his lose of a friend. But I don't know.

I wouldn't have said that.... but I would just ignore it...

WAY past rude.... if it had been my son's funeral I would have gone ballistic had someone done that

I would have stranded her by deflating her tires...but only if I had gloves.

I would have told her to leave immediately.