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k, so you've been doing the SAME thing everyday....?

for like 3 months now.

all of a sudden grumpy wakes up this morning and gives you ****....................what do you do?

I told him to chill out and f7ck off.............

you want small explanation?

my 2 1/2 yr old daughter wakes up every morning around 7 ish.....Every morning, she calls for me to come and turn her light on.......so about 3 months ago I set her up so that she can turn on her own light when she gets up...........but still, every morning she calls me.....She now gets up and turns her light on, but still calls me :) (I do not mind--I think it's kinda cute)

This morning, Daddy got all GRUMPY and was yelling at me 'why do you let her stay up here screaming until everyone else is awake'?................................

WHATEVER.

first of all---she's NOT screaming, she's calling me (and I'm right here)

AND she's been doing this for like the last 3 months (like I said), and he's NEVER said anything before................

k, so I know this isn't about marriage or divorce, but y'all always have such good answers.....I thought maybe polls and surveys, but I think here would be better

Update:

yes his daughter too....

btw....within 10 seconds he's back to snoring again...

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    If he is so high and mighty to complain, then maybe he oughtta come up w/ a resolution. I have a 2 yr old. she does the same thing but, my hubby lays there and we listen to her on the monitor and laugh together no matter how early it is in the morning and enjoy the sounds of our daughter.

    Sounds like he need to enjoy the being a dad and quit being so damn uptight.

  • .
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    Ok I have to tell you that I have to agree with him to a certain extent. If it's your responsibilty to get up with her then Id be seriously annoyed about you letting her sit and call you b/c when you're trying to sleep that kind of stuff isn't cute. And if your daughter was calling you and you're right there then you need to teach her that it's not acceptable to wake up the whole house. That is really rude on both your part and your daughter's part. Sure your husband shouldn't have yelled but after 3 months of keeping quiet about it maybe he he was ready to lose his mind over it! And you were most definetly wrong to tell your husband to f-off. A word of advice...stop letting the 2 yr old set the way the house is run or you will quickly have a 10, 11, 12, etc yr old that is running the house. And let a child cause division between you and your husband now over small things and soon they will realize that they can divide and conquer and pit the two of you against each other. That'll be badf news for you, your marriage, and your family as a whole. It may just be something small now but it WILL turn into bigger things later on!

    You should go apologize to your husband as soon as he wakes up!

  • Fergy
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    If he is back to sleep in ten seconds then why are you making such a fuss? Maybe your husband is tired and hates to be woke up when it's his day off or something. We all get grumpy from time to time and I am sure that you do too. This sure don't seem like it is something to fight about. And on the same hand, your hubby should help you with the baby too. It is a joint matter raising a child. If the baby always calls out for you then he must not be spending enough time with her.

  • 1 decade ago

    Sounds like Dad needs to yell more often, and not "save it up". Really, it just sounds like he's being bi*chy, not that big a deal. I'm barely human for about 2 hours after I wake up. Anyone in their right mind would dislike me at that point and I do not blame them one bit, lol.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Let him know that she needs you. Shes still a little one and needs her mommy, it is very cute and I'm glad you go to her. She needs to know you care.

    Tell Mr. Grumpy to get over it and explain to him that i'm sorry it bothers you but shes my baby and I need to be there for her. Shes young, she'll grow out of that soon enough to where you'll miss those days when she does stop!

    Good luck, just remind him that they are only little for so long. They grow up too fast. Life is too short to be angry over something so small. She's a child still that needsher mommy.

  • Hima
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    2 1/2 years old kid..ussually needs attetion..tell that to ur husband..maybe he has never been two before..

    anyways.. as u know her wake up time be there and just on the light for her..until she herself volunteers to do it one fine day. and i am definately sure she will.

    cheerup

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    If he hasn't done this before don't worry about it. Times are tough right now and most us guys are stressing money and our jobs.He was probably enjoying a good rest and was half asleep when he was rude

  • Clo !
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    What is your husband's real problem? I would have told him exactly what you said: "Chill out and phuke off". If my child needs me and she's only 2 1/2 years old, well then I would not hesitate to go to her room. Period.

    When my hubby started to act that way, he finally understood the love of a mother to her child. I made sure, he would never forget this !

  • 1 decade ago

    Maybe he just had a bad week and is tired. I am sure he is half asleep and doen't truely mean it. Is this his daughter too? Hopefully the love is shared.

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