Do you think being to realistic is ok ?

If you're a realist, you can't change that. You can TRY to have different feelings, but good luck with that.

My grandfather recently passed away from cancer. He was in pain for the last 4 months of his life. When he finally did pass, I was relieved because he wasn't hurting anymore, and I didn't cry. Everyone else in my family was shouting, "WHY!?! WHY DID YOU LEAVE US?!!?" and the like at him. I found that very rude. I don't think being realistic is rude. People need to be told how things are. People need a dose of reality.

all of life is fiction.

Most people prefer to live in fantasy.

And everyone learns to fake it, to fall in line, to start thinking with the hive mind.

They might try to call it empathy, but often it's just another lie... so well put on they've begun to believe it themselves.... how much they've changed and what good people they are... how legendary their lives will be as greeters for walmart. Many just looking to be accepted and yet still have someone to place on the outside... whoever dares disagree with the hive mind.

So, surrender to the delusion and life becomes easier to believe, such grand meanings in the most mundane of lives... with excessive insecurities and fallacies too big to bear.

Though it could be recommended that everyone could use a bit of a time to stop investing in insecurities of theirs or others.

But then, honesty is overrated.... as well as even having an ounce of self integrity.

If you believe whatever you're told, then everything I have said here is a lie.

being realistic all the time is not nice.... at ALL.

people love it when you sugarcoat things, like its just wrong to speak your mind. dontfully believe anything that your told. and dont talk bad about people.

No not all the time.