just a cariboo angel

Hi, sorry this is long, but I'd like yr input on it.

several yrs. ago we went to Mexico, with another couple. I Go very sick on tequila, and threw up etc.. they promised they would ever say anything. It would remain just between us..

While last night we went to a Xmas party.

1st. host says, would you like a tequila.. I said no tks, she said, I thought not... I never gave it any other thought.. just thought that was weird. (turns out I guess she was just itching to say something to me~~

2. at the dinner table, host said, I heard you puked and left her mark all over the parking lot, just at the boarder or was that on their side.. I was very annoyed & insulted & embarrassed ~ I bit my tongue, The couple sitting next to both kept quiet. So did her husband..

3. then (my so called friend) ask me to their table in kitchen. I didn't go.

4.. then (my so called friend) ( was telling the others at that table about it) as I over heard her say, oh she was drunk..

5.. after dinner before we left, she made another comment about me getting drunk again.. grinning at me, I guess she thought it was funny.. Me not so much

Needles to say I wasn't impressed. I stayed quiet.

Now I'm wondering, should I just let this slide, or let them know how I feel?

As I'm spending Xmas eve with the couple we went to Mexico with me, and I'd hate to go thru that again.

thank you,

I'm not sure I did the right thing, I sent an e-mail to my sister in hopes of at least some response. but it back fired. her son ended up writting me a very nasty long letter.

My sister & my issues seem to go a long ways back, we use to be close. But things changed somewhere along the way. It would drive me nuts, I'd travel hundreds of miles home, and she wouldn't even drive across town to see, I'd be at our parents house. then my parents would encourage me to go to the mall where she worked, and she come out give me a hug, great to see you, how long you down for, well got to go, well see you next time. And that would be it. My parents have since passed on, and she hasn't invited out at all. she doesn't travel, never leaves the Island. When I;d call she would talk a min or two, natter on about her job, never ask about how I'm doing, or my husband. If I said anything about me, or him or the dog oppps got to go, other phone's ringing, hubby wants something, someones at the door. and she'd hang up. Now I found out her son;s getting married, in a few days, and you guessed it I'm not invited. I have yet to be invited to any family events.

So I sent her an e-mail telling her how it feels. Her son wrote me a very long Nasty letter back... and then stating were not related, as your adopted.. yikes... were he getting that from, her!! yes it's true I'm adopted, but my parents never told anyone, they said they ever thought of it that way. that I couldn't be more theirs, than if they had me naturally. My Mom was best friend, and losing them both suddenly was very hard on me.

having a sister would of been wonderful..

I'm at lost as what to do, should I write again and risk another nasty letter. or just let it go. and hope one days she'll have a change of heart..

sorry this was a tad long.

I wondering if other's feel the same way I do, about campfire's.

I'm not a fan, I don't like breathing in smoke, and toxic fumes. the ones I've been to, they seem to throw in there garbage, paper plates etc. not chemical free items. and lord know what's in the wood there using. painted or other wise. my husband laughs at me. as that darn smoke always follows me about. and then we all reak of smoke. I love the outdoors, and star gazing, hanging our with friends, but don't feel the need for a fire to enjoy it with. does anyone else feel this way, and what are your views on this.

tks,