Why does my friend Ethan suck so bad, I hate him but my other friends want to keep him around?

He keeps saying things that are cringe and not based at all. I don't laugh at all and I think he's an incel. He makes a lot of gay jokes and he says it's cause he's "actually gay no cap" but idk I'm kinda uncomfy about it and all. He gets imposter every time in among us, and it's really weird and I think he's hacking. He keeps talking about his "clan" or something and says he has to go to meetings and bonfires and stuff and I don't lcare. He won't shut up about this steve crowder guy and I don't listen to podcasts and he sounds mad weird so IDK what's on with that. How to I convince my friends to kick him out of the discord. He made a fat joke about me while I was typing this please help me guys. Schampus