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I know I have asked this already but I am a 29 year old female and when I was born I had a lot of problems and my mom said that she doesn’t know if she will ever let me drive by myself so I don’t drive or have a job and I still live with my parents. My uncle started dating a woman 2 years ago
 and I go with them every Wednesday night for supper and I have been before she came into the picture and she just about every time always brings up that I don’t have a job and that I don’t drive and even that I don’t have much of a life and I have kinda talked with her about this and she told me that she likes me for who I am and that she does not look down on me about this. My uncle always comes to get me and brings me to his house and she’s already there but yet she always takes me home after. She is a nice person  but she is just very blunt so how do I not take this personally when I am by myself? I do act ok when I’m around her though

Pearl · Answer

maybe you should get some help so you can get a job

Anonymous · Answer

Your mom "doesn't know if she will ever let me drive."   Lucky for you this isn't her decision to make.   You have to get out of your own comfort zone and get a job, go to school and learn how to drive.   You're twenty-nine and it's time to take control of your own life.   Mommy can't take care of you forever.

Anonymous · Answer

I don’t know what kind of problems you had when you were born, but you’re almost 30 now. Why can’t you work or drive? Your mother is no longer in charge of your life. The only reason she controls what you do is because you’re completely dependent on her. Why can’t you learn to drive? Why can’t you work? Your mom won’t be able to take care of you forever. If you’re uncomfortable about people bringing up the fact that you’re unemployed, then the most obvious answer is to get a job.

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