Do men like women that pick them or women they pick?

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I’m just wondering I’ve had some failed relationships is it dumb to go after the guys I like or should I go for guys that come on to me first

T J · Answer

I like a woman that I pick. If a woman tried to pick me, I will turn her down.

Anonymous · Answer

I agree with other anonymous! Let the guy approach you!

? · Answer

I think it is BEST when you pick each other. When you both mutually like each other. Though I think it really depends on who it is.

Anonymous · Answer

Always let a guy make the first move, this way you'll know for sure that he likes you.
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Yes, it's very dumb to go after guys, if you do, they'll just consider you "easy"

? · Answer

women who pick me. because it shows that they actually care about you and aren't after attention

Michael · Answer

I usually prefer women who pick me but that's just me

Anonymous · Answer

It doesn't matter either way really.

? · Answer

If you like a guy, tell him!  Believe me, he will appreciate it.  What's the worst that can happen?  If he says no, then just move on.  Simple as that.

Do men like women that pick them or women they pick?

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