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Was I friend-zoned?
I've been friends with this woman for a long time now, and I asked her out on a first date 2 months ago, since then we have been on several more. I decided to ask her how she feels about me, just to know where I stand. Her response was "In the middle, in between friends and girlfriend/boyfriend". What the hell do I make of this?
3 Answers
- 1 year agoFavorite Answer
Make out with her.
Bring up the attraction and intensity.
Soon she'll be yours.
Good luck.
-sizzle
- James BlackleyLv 71 year ago
My .02 cents
You guys are casually dating, which means you are going on dates often BUT without making any promises to each other and with both of you still free and clear to see other people if either of you choose.
"In the middle between friends and girlfriend/boyfriend"- It means she has feelings for you that go deeper than friendship but also at this point not strong enough to jump into bed with your and/or into a full blown relationship either. Were you friend-zoned? No, because that would imply she telling you she just wants to be friends, she hasn't said that to you.
It sounds to me she wants to take things slow, and if you were smart, you wouldn't push this on her, because you will wind up driving her away if you do. You made your pitch, she gave you your response, if you want a shot at the real deal with her, then you need to accept that right now that is where she is at and all she can offer you.
Give her time.
- 1 year ago
you are at the bottom of her choices in men and you are looking desperately to cling to something. move on.
