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Is my girlfriend losing interest?
I know this comes off as very insecure, but I’ve come to Greece for a holiday and she’s gone to London on a very prestigious internship and since she’s been in London she’s been messaging me very rarely and going out till late, I know she goes on WhatsApp regularly because her parents are always messaging her so it makes me feel **** when I don’t get a message for hours, I don’t enjoy talking to her anymore, I know she’s busy but she doesn’t make any effort at all and it’s making me think if we’re right for each other, am I being a needy bf or is there something else, thanks for advice in future
2 Answers
- ?Lv 72 years agoFavorite Answer
We cannot read her mind.
But understand that MOST relationships do NOT last. When the honeymoon/infatuation/excitement phase has died out, most people lose interest. Because it was only about the infatuation and their fantasy about each other … not about the actual relating.
The first ‘test’ of whether or not two people are “right” for each other is when the infatuation phase dies out and the problems starts (the infatuation phase can last as long as up to 2-3 years AFTER marrying).
If the couples survives that test, then it takes another 15 years or so to see IF they can both mature enough to take responsibility for their own emotions, accept each other (flaws and all) and just not getting upset anymore.
- 2 years ago
Tell her how you feel.
If she still wants to date you she will make an effort, if not, well, I think you know...
