I'm not allowed to invite any of my friends to my parents wedding. (My dad and stepmom's wedding) is this fair?

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My dad and stepmom are getting married on July 1st.  They’re both inviting about 25 people each.  I have 3 sisters.  One that’s biological and two that are step.  At the moment I’m a bit miffed because my stepmom said that my one sister who is 22 is allowed to bring her boyfriend and her best friend, my other sister who is 33 is allowed to bring her baby’s daddy.  Basically her and this guy hooked up on tinder and had a baby and he comes to the house twice a week, but they’re not in any sense of a relationship, and then my other sister who is only 7 gets to bring her best friend and the best friend’s entire family is coming.  Yet my stepmom won’t allow me to invite anyone because my friends don’t hang out at the house enough.  I’m the type of person who likes to go to the lake or go for a hike or on a road trip with my friends not stay at home all day and play card games and drink.  So is this fair?  Do you guys think I should bring a friend anyways without their permission?  Especially since everyone at the wedding will have someone besides me.

anna · Accepted Answer

Talk to your dad about it and ask if you could bring at least 1 friend (if you want to bring more, ask that too) and ask him to convince your stepmom. I think it's pretty unfair for all your other siblings to get to bring someone to the wedding with them except for you. Just say something like "Can't I at least have one friend to come? Since everyone else has their friends coming I'll be all by myself the entire time."

Pearl · Answer

it dont sound fair to rne either, rnaybe you can skip the weather if you dont think its fair

Anonymous · Answer

You aren't allowed to invite anyone to someone else's wedding because it is not your wedding.

You don't draw up the guest list, the bride and groom do.

I'm not allowed to invite any of my friends to my parents wedding. (My dad and stepmom's wedding) is this fair?

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