How do you know if a guy is just using you or not?

Well this is a tough question to answer since it’s different for everyone. In your case, since you’re a shallow jàckàss, anyone showing interest is indeed using you as a cúm dumpster.

By his actions, he proves you he is with you bc he really likes you by the way he is around you, it is easy to notice when he is using you

All he cares about is sex and nothing else. He only spends time with you to get laid and has no interest in anything else.

if he’s just using you, just take notice of what time of day he decides to show up at your door. If he’s calling and texting you at one in the morning, nothing good can come from that. He’s definitely only concerned with hooking up and views you as his go-to late night booty call.Doesn’t take you out on an actual date. If he doesn’t take you out on a date, then this guy doesn’t want to invest any time getting to know you unless it gets him off.Doesn’t invite you out. Do you know his group of friends? Have you ever seen them? If he doesn’t introduce you to his friends, that’s not a good sign. Think about it, when you really like a guy, you introduce them to your friends for approval. Same goes with guys. They want to show their new girlfriend off and get the “okay” from the guys.