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Relationship advise?
My boyfriend of just over a year seems to be feeling really down on himself atm it’s since he started this new course and has had to spend most of his time doing work, at first I thought he just didn’t want to see me but I’ve realised he’s just got to do this work but recently the tiniest thing he does to make me a bit upset he just gets really down and said he doesn’t think he’s making me happy, I’ve told him he is and we’ve had this conversation a few times on how we can both make each other happy and compromise a bit but he just gets really down all the time now, I think it might be stews from this work and trying to make me happy at the same time he thinks he’s doing an awful job so he just gets upset but I’m trying to tell him that I’m fine and he’s not doing anything wrong but he just keeps getting upset.
3 Answers
- Gary BLv 74 years ago
STAY OUT OF H IS WAY until the teh course is donw.
Stress does ugly things, nut they will go away when teh class is finished. STOP trying to tell him how good he is doing -- he feels that you "are just trying to maek him feel god", whic is infact the truth! Be supportiv, but leave him be until teh class is done.
- Anonymous4 years ago
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- Anonymous4 years ago
Well it sounds like he is stressed and needs a stress reliever....so perhaps this weekend or whenever he is home and not at work, come into the room, dressed scantly and tell him you are very happy with him, but are concerned he is getting too stressed-out. Then take of your clothes, and tell him you are sorry for making his stress worse by trying to make you happy. Then, tell him you are all his, lay across his lap and tell him to start by giving you a a little spanking for you adding to his stress and to take out his frustrations. Then, bring him to the bed and do the things he most likes to do in bed. That will help him a lot as he know you are there to support him and it will one less thing on his mind.