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How do you bring up sex in a relationship?

Me and my gf have been dating for 2 months and prom is coming up in a week, we have both never had sex and since i keep hearing about that after prom sex stereotype... I was wondering if there is a way to bring it up? We have already kissed, made out, french kissed, etc... And we got to the point where she was topless. Any suggestions?

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    5 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    You can just ask her. It's only sex and the more relaxed you are in your thinking or the way you handle it (both the act as well as the conversations about it), the easier it will be bring it up.

    So make a good start and ask your girlfriend about it. You could discuss the after prom sex stereotypes, sex in general, or you could ask her how she feels about moving forward and getting a little more active together with you.

    Being able to speak openly about sex with your girlfriend will help you improve your relationship. Not just sex wise, but also in the general communication sense. If you make a habit of just speaking about things you can solve things sooner and create a better connection with your girlfriend. It will make your relationship together stronger.

    So don't think about it and just bring it up. It might seem scary or uncomfortable at first but the more you do it, the better you'll get.

  • 5 years ago

    Sex after prom isn't a given. You've only been dating 2 months so don't rush things. go to your prom and have fun, enjoy yourselves and make some happy memories. Don't stress yourselves about having sex for the first time. But if it looks like it might happen remember this : No contraceptive is 100% safe and CONDOMS ARE OUR FRIENDS!!!!!!!!!

  • 5 years ago

    Just talk to her about it, ask her is she feels ready yet and let her know how you feel. Try not to make her feel pressured; I wouldn't bring up the prom-sex stereotype if i were you. Mainly because that's not what it's about. Sex is about bringing two people who care about each other closer together. You should never do something just because everyone else is doing it. It will happen when you are both ready

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    the way you are progressing oral should by near followed by penetration

  • 5 years ago

    ask

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