My wife is useless?

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I married my wife about 1 year ago because I had a baby girl with her and I was living at my parents house.. my parents are seventh day adventist.. so with this religion I can't live in my parents house with a women without being married.. so we got married smh.. my wife can't cook, she doesn't drive and she doesn't work.. that means that I do all the shopping, after work I go to the grocery store so she can cook the little things she know how to cook, if I have to go to the ER I have to drive myself.. to make matters worse she has a 5 year old boy that I support also! All she does is sit at our new home with the kids and do her online schooling for architecture and smoke cigarettes..

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She is not useless. She is taking care of 2 children and going to school! You can teach her how to drive and help her get a driver's license so she can help with the grocery shopping. Buy her a cookbook!

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First of all, she's supporting two kids, INCLUDING, your own child. Without your wife, you wouldn't be able to handle 2 kids, and a job. You'd have to put them in daycare and you wouldn't really be spending much time with them. If you can drive, TEACH HER and sign her up so she can start driving. And not everyone knows how to cook, including you. She will learn in time.

Liz · Answer

And you're the genius who had to get married because he couldn't figure out how to operate a condom.  Who's the useless one, huh?  LOL

seedy history · Answer

So teach her to drive or sign her up for driving lessons. You made your own bed sir, it is quite unbecoming for you to try to blame HER for it!

However, how fortunate you are that she desires to be an architect. Seems like SOMEONE in the family intends to make enough money to move out of your parent's home.

I don't believe your folks allow her to smoke in their home. In fact, I'm certain they don't.

Anonymous · Answer

Because she found a loser who married her despite her being useless.

robert x · Answer

if you feel this way now.. it begs the  question , why did  you sleep with her and get her pregnant? surely  she was  useless at the  time of  you screwing around with her... perhaps  its poetic  justice.. for stupidity.

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welcome to the world of marriage...  no matter how great they were before you married them, they always end up as useless lumps of crap after that ring slides on.

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Shoulda used a condom lol!

Anonymous · Answer

They all are.

Anonymous · Answer

so why did u have unprotected sex with her then?

My wife is useless?

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