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Ok girls, if your boyfriend wants to go down on you?

If he wants to go down on you and give you oral pleasure but isn't sure what he is doing works for you, if he asked for you help would you teach him what feels good and works for you or would you rather he didn't even try if he doesn't know what he is doing?

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  • Anonymous
    7 years ago
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    Yes that's so hot that u want to do that. If I were u I'd try to get her in the shower so your sure shes clean then when u guys are drying off just start kissing her and say u don't know what ur doing but u really want to taste her. To me I'd find that such a turn on bc it means I'm your first :3 and u really want to pleasure me....and obviously after all that excitement one day I'd make u want to *** like u never did before :O I'm making myself blush! Go for it!!!!!!!!! Don't listen to anyone here I'm sure shed appreciate it and love every second lol but only go down on her if u want to which I get the feeling u do

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Teach him. Give the poor guy a chance! He's trying to do something nice for you, which is more than a lot of guys would do. He's trying to pleasure you instead of just worrying about himself. It's a nice gesture! Be sure to thank him for trying at least and don't make him feel bad about himself if he doesn't catch on right away, sometimes that stuff just takes a little practice. Odds are, you werent perfect at going down on him the first time either.

  • 7 years ago

    All girls are different. What a guy does with his tongue that would make MY tongue curl in a screaming orgasm may not do a thing to another girl. So yes you definitely have the right idea. There is nothing ever wrong with communication in any form of sex, it can only make it better. Unfortunately many couples don't do it. Also any girl that thinks you don't know what you're doing because you're only trying to find out what makes her feel good------put your penis back in your jeans and get out of there.

  • 7 years ago

    You should be really happy. How do you expect him to know if you don't tell him? Lots of guys don't really want to do it so count yourself lucky and both of you will learn a thing or two!

  • ?
    Lv 5
    7 years ago

    If they like you, then the girl would probably show you what she likes. What do you expect her to show you though? It's not like girls can go down on themselves. The best they can do is show you where everything is and what feels good for them.

  • 7 years ago

    Do some research online if you can. Lots of informative material. Taking a shower together first, great idea! Start it however the urge hits you. Easy tips, go slow. Its not a race. Kiss, caress, work slowly down. Lick slowly, up from the vagina, between her pussy lips and over her clit. Linger at areas YOU want to explore/feel. Slide your tongue back down to her lips and kiss them tenderly,

    Gently suck them between your lips. Slowly slide your tongue up to her clit, run your tongue around it like you're mapping it with your tongue to memorize her...then gently suck, lick, envelope her clit in your hot, wet, perfect mouth and suck on it, caress it with your tongue and lips and kiss it as though it is the most precious possession the two of you share. Just have fun! If she asks you to keep doing something, linger there. If she wants it harder or with more pressure, do it. Ask her to say "Bookmark That" If you do something she likes. Be sure you remember it. She will !

    Oh yeah, RELAX

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    mate I'm a guy but even I know girls aren't going to turn that down, haha. I personally love being down there, I don't know if I do it right but I tend to lick and suck the clit and finger at the same time haha, see how it goes and good luck!

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Ummm no, not having sex until married

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Yes rub his head whiles he's doing it and just guide him through it while he's doing it. I did it with my man and he loves it, it actually turns him on

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Let him do it if you're comfortable with oral sex.

    Communication is the most important thing in this situation, tell him what feels good that he's doing and what doesn't, give him little tips.

    He's never gonna learn unless he tries

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