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This guy really likes me but I don't want to date him yet...help?

There is this super sweet guy who has a crush on me, and he's a great friend. I really enjoy talking and being with him, and since he's developed a crush in me he's just generally been sweeter.

I was dating someone who turned out to be not a nice guy, and I just found out today that he is even more of a misogynistic liar than I had thought. If I were to be with a guy, I would want to be with a sweet considerate one, unlike my past few guys. I have one available, but I'm just so tired of relationships.

I don't want to lead this nice guy on - he believes that I don't have a crush on him back, but I do want to let him know that while I don't want a relationship right now, one in the future is possible. But if I say that explicitly, he'll think that I actually have a crush in him and he'll start being weird and romantic and ruin the friendship and chances of a relationship.

Help!!!!!

Oh, this weekend I'm 97% sure he's going to tell me explicitly that I'm the girl he likes. So that would be a good time to tell him...what should I say?

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  • 7 years ago
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    Hey this happens with every second girl out there.Whether you want to change your friendship into some kind of relationship is totally up to you.But lemme just tell u,in case your relationship goes sour u'll loose your bf as well as your friend in just 1 go.First make sure,whether the guy is actually your "friend" or just trying to get you to say yes to a relationship with him.If hes really your friend den he'll accept whatever you decide n be cool with it.Trust me I faced d same situation lost my friendship n relationship in d end.

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