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Why does he go for unattractive girls with little substance?

He's a Virgo sun/Leo moon/Libra venus/Cancer mars/Cancer rising.

I've known him for close to a year now and we dated casually in the past, but he never gets too serious with me… I'm not saying I'm the most beautiful girl in the world with the perfect personality, but if you were to see the girls he chooses to date long-term, you would understand. They're ugly ghetto girls who curse and can't seem to hold any type of meaningful conversation, but they're nice to him. A few even have kids. If he matched up to them, I would've moved on long ago, but he's NOTHING like them. He acts that way WITH them and then acts totally different with me. He's polite and intelligent and super sweet kinda shy and we have the deepest conversations. He says he wants to get married and that he really likes me (but won't say love yet), yet he still keeps me at arm's length and spends a lot of his time with those girls instead. For all I know he could be talking the same to them. But anyone could see I'm the most practical choice! What is going on inside his head? I'm so confused!

There's only one girl he's dated in the past who even remotely lives up to my expectations and he said he was young and stupid and messed up with her. That's all he'll say.

Update:

He knows how I feel about him... I'm usually very shy about expressing my feelings, but with him, they just come naturally. I give him enough attention without going overboard... I'm a Libra sun/Gemini moon/Leo venus and mars/Taurus rising

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  • 8 years ago
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    most guys go for girls they think they deserve. you have to show him that he deserves better. show him how you are better. express your feelings for him.

  • 8 years ago

    Well if he only goes for ugly ghetto girls and you cannot get in with him, then I would have no chance whatsoever. This happens to me with a lot of men. They are put off because they find my looks intimidating.

  • 8 years ago

    He's not looking for a lady. If you really want to attract him ,you could always make friends with the ghetto girls and learn a few new tricks. In this scenario,they will be your best teachers.

    but is he worth it?

    Source(s): Cancer
  • 8 years ago

    Ghetto girls are cool

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