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Aquarius with a Scorpio moon sulking? Get him out of the house?
My best friend is an Aquarius with a Scorpio moon, Aries venus and Aquarius mars.
He's been ignoring me for weeks. The only time he answered me was when I sent a text teasing him about something someone said about him and he threw out a bunch of insults about the person and then disappeared again. A few days ago he called me twice and when I answered, he sounded confused and said he dialed me by accident and that he was trying to reach his girlfriend (more like FWBs)?? So I just said okay and hung up. Yesterday he called asking about my plans like he wanted to get together. I told him I was free (I really would've been canceling my plans for him), but he just said nevermind and hung up. Then last night I text him asking what's been up with him and he just said he's been going through a lot and he's not feeling like himself. He obviously didn't want to talk about it, but usually when he's feeling depressed he talks to me… He's told me many times I'm the only one he trusts. He says not even his girlfriend knows him like I do. So I casually asked about his relationship, he said it was somewhat okay. I joked about asking the love doc (me) for advice and he said no. It was all short and blunt. I ended it there telling him to get some rest and he said goodnight with a smiley (which surprised me). So I woke up to such a beautiful today and I was thinking of asking me him if he wants to go to some park festival, but I don't want to risk coming off as clingy/annoying.. I'm usually not this persistent at all, but I miss my friend…
I'd just like to add that I don't like him anymore than a friend and he knows that... But we get along very well and used to do everything together. I'm a Libra with Gemini moon and Leo venus.
His girlfriend DID add me on Facebook a few days ago... ? I don't know her. He keeps us apart... But I think it's because me and him have talked about getting together in the past, but I thought it was best we stayed friends.
Wait LAST edit.. Can you explain how you came to that conclusion? Because I'm confused. He's always there for me. If I was going through something right now, he'd drop the attitude and help me... Oh, and we had sex. Once. Right before they got together. But she doesn't know that.
He was dating a completely different girl long-term last year. Met me. We became good friends. Broke up with her month later. Started "talking" to both me AND his current gf about getting together. I had sex with him because he settled for FWBs, but when I still wouldn't commit, he gave up and got with his current. They've been dating for two months. First month I spent more time with him, and the second.. Has been this.
Friends with benefits...
Yeah, when we were talking about getting together, I didn't sound interested, so he said we could be FWBs, I kinda agreed... We did it once and I wasn't into it. He saw it, got with this girl, but in the first month of them dating he tried to have sex with me again on a few different occasions, but I wouldn't unless he broke up with her. He didn't. And now I'm getting the silent treatment this month. Not sure if it's a coincidence.
3 Answers
- Anonymous8 years agoFavorite Answer
I went out with an Aquarius/Scorpio Moon/aries venus guy and he was a bit paranoid.
Idk, he was all in love with me, then suddenly he started picking on me/criticizing me over everything, he first said he was having problems too. It's probably his Venus in Aries. Because they lose interest very quickly, Venus in Aries is detrimental, so I am not sure if these guys can even fall in love. It's like they are just into flings and they are unable to be serious with anyone for that matter. They also value those who don't matter (who don't love them) and are unable to value those who do matter, e.g. those who love them. It's really awkward. I am not sure. My advice is to just ignore him, until he starts wondering what is up with you. xD
Oh ok, well Idk, then my advice is just to take your distance, if he is a true friend he will come to you, if he is not, then he was not worth your time. x Maybe his girlfriend is a bit possessive and doesn't want him to talk to you, who knows? Best to keep your distance and not get involved with that type of drama. :)
Edit: oh ok, then. Then he is not good. If she added you, then that means that he talks about you to her, to make her jealous, so don't add her and stay away from him. He doesn't seem like a nice guy. You are lucky, because you can see his true colors now. x I am sorry about that, please don't be hurt as really guys like that are not worthy of your wonderful attention xD. I am sorry about that, and I am an Aquarius too and despise guys like that. x
- ?Lv 48 years ago
If you only wanted to be friends why did you have sex with him? And I think you should give him time to think and put himself together.
~FWBs?*
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Source(s): Libra <3