Is it really possible for a Virgo to truly love two girls at once?

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He has a Leo moon and a Libra venus. When we started casually dating in the beginning of the year I found out he had just gotten his heart broken by this girl and quickly moved on to me. I was told by his brother. I wasn't looking for anything serious, so it didn't bother me.. But I fell hard for him. He moved a few hours away, but I still see him every few weeks to a month and he's moving back next year. He contacts me daily and is very romantic. But two nights ago he posted a status about that other girl... First one I've seen in months. He was saying he's changed a lot since last year, how he still loves and wants to be with her, and only time will heal. Days before he was posting about me.. Then this morning he posted another status explaining how he's in love with the idea of being in love, but with who because he can't decide. He's under the assumption that I never use Facebook anymore. I'm so confused? He's told me he's loved me in the past, but just last week we had a serious talk and he told me he really really liked me, he thought he loved me, but we need to spend more time together to make that bond before he knows for sure. Then he invited me to come up there to see him in a couple weeks??

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And how do I confront him without freaking him out...

Shades87 · Accepted Answer

:/ My ex boyfriend has those exact placements, so maybe I can help...

"I found out he had just gotten his heart broken by this girl and quickly moved on to me."

The phrase in that sentence is 'quickly moved on to me'. Hope this doesn't sound mean but is it possible you're a rebound date? :( He got his heart broken by the other girl; which means ^she^ hurt him, not the other way around. I'm guessing he probably didn't want whatever they had together to end. The fact he is posting statuses about her is a big sign that he isn't over her. He is still thinking about her. From what he said, it sounds like he knows there's no chance of getting her back ['only time will heal'] so tried to find somebody else to give attention to, maybe in the hope that it would distract him or fix his broken heart. I notice people with Libra don't usually enjoy being single

It's also possible that he really is in love with you AND her which would explain his status about not being able to decide who to love. I think it is possible to luv 2 people at once, however, you usually always luv one person a little more than the other. Right now it sounds like he's trying to test out who he luvs more, which is why he wants to spend some time with you

Maybe you shouldn't contact him for a while:- a few days or a week - and see if he talks to you first. If he misses you or thinks about you, he will. I could be wrong but to me it seems like he takes you for granted, knowing that you will always patiently remain there as a choice while he decides who he luvs the most. Take that away and it might force him to commit instead of being confusing

Anonymous · Answer

I read a birthdate description for September 7th which is on my 4th cusp from my Sun it said "toggle relationships" meaning, they may date more than one person at a time.  ugh...

Is it really possible for a Virgo to truly love two girls at once?

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