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Am I in the friendzone with her?
Normally I'm pretty good at reading a woman, but this one I can make sense of. I'm friends with this co-worker and we get along great, I've noticed though in the past month or so she has been hitting on me such as finding excuses to chat me up, asking me to add her on facebook, giving me compliments including "you look great have you been working out?". I knew she was married which is why I didn't flirt back with her, but recently I found out (she confirmed it) her and her husband were in the process of divorcing (she's already moved out) so I asked her if she wanted to hang out for coffee and she replied with "sure thanks, we can go out for coffee after work on Sunday".
The date got postponed until yesterday, and she was unusually chipper at work. She was telling me she was chatting with her good friend about us going out for coffee and she was lighting up a christmas tree when she was telling me that. Here's the confusing part she brought her friend (a female) along with her when we went out for coffee, anyways it went well but she asked me about what I thought of these other 2 coworkers looks.
My question is am I in the friendzone or is there hope?
6 Answers
- 8 years ago
I wouldn't pursue anything, because she's in the middle of the divorce. Otherwise it would look awful and it would like you were the cause of it. Just imagine you are in the friend zone just because it is a sticky situation. And even when the divorce is finalized, don't ask her out right away. If it is meant to be, it will be meant to be, and don't worry about it for now.
- Black MahoganyLv 48 years ago
Definitely Friendzone and a woman giving a "compliment" to a man doesn't mean she's making moves. She might just be stating the obvious.
- Anonymous7 years ago
In new here so I have no idea how to comment back or anything so this is how I'm going to do it.
My boyfriend knows about Ryan. Ryan knows about my boyfriend. I have not lied to anyone nor am I hiding anything. I do not think of myself as " immature " and I really don't appreciate your assumption.
