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i noticed i worry fresh new into a new relationship and want to talk about it with my girlfriend?

i notice i had worried allot and i just started a new relationship as a guy with my girlfriend and i am just worried about losing her and chasing her away and really that's the only thing i want to communicate with her about this particular issue or matter but i don't know how to start it off like how to start the conversation with my girlfriend about this or what to say to her when talking to her about this? please i am deeply in need for help anyone who has professional advice or successful relationship advice i would greatly deeply from the bottom of my heart appreciate it this girl means the world to me

God Bless!!!

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Hi Michael! Sounds like a bit of a dilemma! My partner and i have been in a relationship for about 3 years and when we first began going out he suffered from extreme anxiety and a bit of depression an he stressed about losing me. Our relationship was long distant for the first year so we did ALOT of talking. We were about two months into the relationship when he told me and all i kept thinking was i wish you had told me earlier! It was just a matter of me asking how he was and his reply was ok. I picked up on the vibe and pushed him a little bit. Know what he said? "Promise you won't laugh" let me tell you it was no laughing matter. I wouldn't suggest putting a downer on an awesome day but if its just a normal conversation i suggest you subtly slide it in. You will find out how much she cares and how well she knows you when she comments on it. She won't leave you because you worry about her and your relationship. You won't lose her because you worry full stop. She'll see it as a way of you voicing how much you do really appreciate her and she'll love that you trust her enough to tell her :) good luck with your relationship sweety and just remember she's with YOU for a reason :)

  • S
    Lv 4
    8 years ago

    Michael: stop being insecure about urself. If it works, it works, if it doesn't, in doesn't. Just live ur life as if u r #1, think like that n all will work out. At least u tried.

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