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How do I make this unconventional fwb work?
Basically, I had this amazing make out session with a guy. Like, awesome. We couldn't do anything else because awkward timing, but later he was like "find me on Facebook! Here's how to spell my name! Repeat it back to me!" So I'm pretty sure he wants to stay in contact. When we parted ways, he was like "see you again".
Here's where it gets weird. His family lives on the opposite side of the country, but he goes to school on the other side of the world and visits where I live (I think he visits...he def goes home for breaks and they sometimes visit family by me I believe).
So ideally, it would be long distance Friends with benefits. Purely carnal, no commitment. But the thing is, he truly is a nice person, and I want to be FRIENDS with him as well.
How can I create a relationship via Facebook, that will make sure he wants me and remembers me but also makes sure he respects me as a friend? How can I build a friendship while getting him lusty?
Keep in mind that we are college age. Haven't hit the big 20.
Thank you!
Where I live is where his extended family is, and on his school breaks he may visit. So not often. He said "we should do this again" so I know he wants to
2 Answers
- WaterdragonLv 78 years agoFavorite Answer
its really easy ---- if he likes you then he will lust for you ----- you dont choose to make friends with someone ---- if there is a connection then you will keep talking ---- if there is not then you wont ---- the same as lust/romance ---- if there is a spark (not the same as a friendly connection) then you really dont need to do anything to make him lust for you beyond letting him know you are interested ---- you cant make him want you but if he does you dont need to do much more than let him know you want him as well
- Anonymous8 years ago
Explain again on how often he's nearby you? Like, are you saying you live where he goes to school, or where you live is his vacation spot...?
How do you know he's looking for something like fwb? If he wants you on facebook, he's looking for a connection if only slightly to keep in touch. I feel like you should treat it like a budding relationship and get to know him as well as you can long distance.
