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? asked in Pregnancy & ParentingPregnancy · 8 years ago

Belly and breast extremely hurting while pregnant?

My bestfriend is on her first or second week of pregnancy and she feel all of these. Is it normal? Another is her mom don't know that she is pregnant and afraid to tell the truth, she might kick out in the house and stop her studies. She feels like aborting the baby. OMG :( What should I do to help her? Advice please.

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago
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    Don't kill the baby its not his or her fault. Arrange to go hospital pretend that you are going out to shopping.

    Take her to a and e I am sure they would help

    Breast hurting is normal. As woman experience through her pregnancy breast tendering. So I think she should go to the hospital, ask the doctors and nurses that this shouldn't be discussed, with the parents or anyone except doctors and nurses for treatment discussion. Confidentiality is important if they break confidentiality then they r in big trouble. She have to tell her mum soon or later and if her mum does kick her out I am sure the housing estate arrange for her to stay somewhere.

    Be supportive toward her and if her mum do chuck her out, persuade your parents that she should stay around and the world is a dangerous place for girls. Tell them honestly and calmly, persuade them to talk to her mum. If she doesn't want anything then that her loss. Tell your parent what happen if you were pregnant?

    Would you chuck me out?

    Left me and my kid your future grandkid to rot?

    One day she (your best friend mum) find out that she (your best friend) lose her life realise that she wasn't supportive.

    After child birth she should continue her education when he or she go to full time creche or school

    If your parent doesn't allow her I am sure she got a relative like her dad, nan, granny, uncle, auntie

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