If a girl waited 1 and a half years for me, would she move on quickly?

Sorry dude, that dove has flown.

Get over it and get on with life. The sooner you forget about her the better off you'll be. She didn't wait 18 months for you then give up only to move on two months later (20 months). It was probably over a very long time ago.

If you want you can talk to her. See (or hear for yourself) what's going on in her life. But personally I think you're only letting yourself in for more heart ache. But you'll never know if you don't try. So give it a shot. You have nothing to loose you haven't already lost - if that's the case. But if it's not the case then you have but to make the effort and things can be the way they once were.

Whatever you decide, it must be YOUR decision. Not someone else's. That way you don't end up blaming me or anyone else for your problems.

Hope this helps.

'av'a g'day mate.

'')

"Move on that quickly" What do you mean, quickly? She's been waiting 1.5 years! That's plenty of time to realize you're wasting your time. Just a little story- this was when I was little, but I thought I was completely in love with this boy, he had been my neighbor but he had to move. I waited a good 4 years for him. Then one day I realized, if he liked me, he would have called. A long time ago. After that, it was almost instantaneous. Eventually we did get back into contact, but we had been young when we knew each other and we'd changed so much, but I still cared about him. Obviously I didn't "love" him anymore. But he was still a close friend for a while.

So, moral is, yes, she could be moving on. No, that doesn't mean your chances are gone.

Also, just to clarify, I don't think it's your fault what happened. If I understand the story correctly, she had every reason to recontact you as well, but didn't. She just waited around for you, then gets pissed when you don't. It's the 21st century. Women can tell a guy how they feel as much as a man can tell a woman.

One must have the will to hold on for years when the world full of opportunities r waiting for them. So go ahead and talk to her. Don waste anymore time. its her who have to take the decision abt the relationship wid u and not her so called friends. If she likes you, she can get connected to you. So talk to her asap.

You are experiencing way to much interference from them. You will need to get around them so it's just you and her. She needs to tell you how she feels from the heart without the opinion of her friends.

I waited four years for mine, and he is happy I waited. We move on sometimes, but part of us hopes he will soon show up... I am sure everything will work out.