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I need advice about a woman?
I have a lady friend, whom I have known for about three years. She and I sometimes hangout, it's not that often, but it's usually fun and pretty memorable. We've gone to places, had some nice conversations, and I enjoy making her smile. I have no idea whether or not I should ask her out because I literally do not know what our relationship really is. She seems to be kinda interested, I think, in me, we go to places and I would be the only guy she would talk to. I've been invited to parties and some clubs for some evenings by her. I want to get to know her, but she lives across the country and only comes to this city for the fall/winter semester. The semester is almost done and I have feelings for her. I have no idea how to communicate those feeling into actions, I am not used to being so smitten by such a lady, in high school I had no real interest in the girls, but in university, this lady is the bomb. I am so conflicted that I've turned to a site where I answer questions in the most half baked of ways.
2 Answers
- 8 years ago
If you know what she likes, get her something really cute that would make her smile. Flowers or anything that she would really enjoy. It is not a bribe to like you but merely an expression of affection. You could just come out and tell her that you have never enjoyed being around another person in your whole life as much as her. Ask her, "If I fall for you, would you catch me?" During your conversations, on occaision, touch her on the hand or the arm but don't be too aggressive about it. When you touch someone, subconsiously, it shows affection. Compliment her but be genuine about it. If there is an Old Time photo place around where you can dress up, then both of you go there and have a picture taken together. Like an 1800's photo. It would re-enforce the friendship. Take photos of the two you when you go out also. Put them in a book and show them to her. (how much fun you have) She will come to realize that maybe the two of you were made for each other.
- 8 years ago
the way i see it is you have one of two options here either tell her how you feel and she might turn you down but the sound of it she wont or dont and just forget about it but if you dont tell her you will regret it for the rest of your days
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