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Gf/ ex wont stop tweeting about me...?
Girlfriend/ EX wont stop tweeting about me?
First im not sure if we broke up or not. She told me we were done then said we should take a break. But, either way we arent talking right now. She keeps tweeting about me saying stuff like "its never easy letting go of the one you love".... "I still miss him".... "letting go of you will allow me to focus on what is important". How should i handle this? I want to get back togethor with her. But i am not sure whether she feels the same way. Should i text her and ask her to talk to me instead of tweeting?Or just leave it and hope she eventually texts me to talk?
3 Answers
- ?Lv 68 years ago
this is just my opinion, so take it for what it's worth... if you want her back, then don't do anything. that's right, don't do anything. i only say that because contacting her is going to make you look weak. contacting someone over a text, is the weakest of all. if you act like you are indifferent as to whether you get back together, then you appear strong. one of the best traits in a male is to be strong with his emotions.
right now she's the one in charge. she's calling the shots. if you do the whole "what can i do to get you back" routine, it's going to kill your chances i believe. whereas if you act like you could care less, then that would probably be your only hope. if you two are in school together, then i suggest you socialize with other females whenever you have the chance. it shows that you're not worried about your ex, and if she was to find that out, it's going to play with her emotions (potentially). it might cause her to second guess what she's been doing lately.
and if the day ever comes that she says she wants you back, i suggest that you don't take her back right that minute. that shows that she can behave however she wants, and you'll always be there. if you go back to my first paragraph, behaving that way will make you appear weak. tell her that you need some time to think it over. you would be taking that power away from her, where she's the one that gets to decide how to dictate your relationship. females like males that have some form of power.
that's just how i would try to handle it... you should probably do what you think is best and try to learn from the results. because things like this are going to happen again in your lifetime with other females.
- ?Lv 78 years ago
I think you should stop reading her tweets and send her a message saying "I'm here if you want to get back together" That's it.
If she doesn't for whatever reason, then start dating...and move on.
Her tweets will eventually mean nothing and go away.
And I can assure no one really cares anyways.
- Anonymous5 years ago
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