how do i apologize to this girl that is in possible potential?

Hi, this happened to me before. Wait for a few days, and chat with her again, I'm assuming that you did not scold her or anything.

BTW, online dating isn't the best way to meet women. Meeting women in real life is the best way. Anyway, here’s general view on dating which I wrote for you. :)

Women’s attitude towards men:

They don’t want a guy that follows them around, or be super nice to them. What have they done so far to deserve you being so nice? If she has done a lot for you too, then fine.

Nice guys finish last, there’s a reason why it’s a common saying – because it’s true.

Don’t be a super nice guy for no reason, but don’t intentionally be an asshole. Just normal towards girls as thou they’re a normal person.

They want a man, not a doormat or a servant. They want a man who is confident and knows what he wants, a man who can take the lead of the relationship and not be the puppy who begs for attention.

Is look important?

For women, looks aren’t the first thing they look for in a man. Yes, it’s a plus point to be good looking, but it’s not the most important point.

Don’t be insecure with your looks. Look around the surrounding; you see average looking guys with pretty girls all the time, right?

Of course, I said looks aren’t important, but you should also take care of yourself – shower, put on clean clothing, wear cologne, and look presentable.

Traits that women are looking for in men:

Mainly there are 4:

1. Confidence – women don’t want to date wussies, just as men don’t want to date fat women.

2. Humour – it’s fun hanging around funny people, right? Women think so too. Learn to have more fun during dates, especially during the initial few dates.

3. Leadership to lead the relationship – it’s not the women’s job to take charge, it’s the men’s job, take the lead, take the charge, do what you want. Tell her what you want. If she accepts, great. If not, it’s time to move on. No time to waste on arguing with women.

4. Emotional stability – women are more emotional, and men need to be the anchor for emotions in the relationship. If you’re the emotional, doesn’t hat make the guy (you) the gay?

Fear of rejection:

A lot of guys don’t dare to ask the girls out or get their number. You just have to do it. If you don’t, you’ll regret it forever. If you do it, you will know the answer.

Life is short, we aren’t here for the long time, we’re here for a good time.

How to know for sure if a girl is interested in you? Ask her out, and get her out. If her response is yes, then great for you. Get to know her, see if she’s the one you want to be with, and move on quickly to the next level of the relationship.

If she rejects you, you get a little sad, but, GREAT TOO. You can stop wasting time and money on someone who isn’t interested in you, and you can move on with your life and to the next girl.

Rejection is a part and parcel of life, you have to accept that fact that not every girl is going to like you. Just like you are not going accept every girl’s confession, right?

Dates what to do:

The purpose of date is to go out and have fun with the other person. Think of something you think is fun or somewhere you like to hang out, and invite her to know join you.

Use the opportunity to get to know the girl as a person, her personality, her passion, and her dreams. Is this girl the one you want to be with?

If yes move on to the next stage quickly. Haste makes waste, but time waits for no men. You want to play slow game, other guys who know their stuff don’t take their own sweet time.

Don’t do the candle-light dinner or the movie date, it’s very traditional, and it puts a more serious tone to it, which the current generation women don’t like. Also, you will spend more money, which is unnecessary in the beginning stage of courtship

Thanks:

I hope my answer helps, if it offends you, I just want to make it clear and in your face, so you get it. I’m speaking from experience.

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